I was afraid that this would happen from the day I met you, mainly because starting to share who I am also meant unraveling my heart and making it accessible everywhere, the time has come to assume: we are not distant, we are different and together we must learn to separate.
The point is that the most real love is also the one that could risk all its facets by a single letter: that the union between two people can endure in a common world, created from individual interests and habits.
- You and I risked everything we had earned to build our own: to maintain its essence and mine.
- To cultivate our spaces.
- To offer us everything that could help us grow and yet we have grown in different times and we have not been able to.
- Adapt to change.
The relationship we have is not what it used to be and, as much as we try not to see, there is nothing we can do to save her. I know we’re fine, deep down we love each other and wish each other well. better, but we’ve calmed down and we’re getting hurt.
We have already changed and now we are two different people who had many projects in common, but that will not be realized: there will be different gaps, breaks and tears, because we put all our expectations to make them a reality.
“Sometimes it is necessary to give up the life that was planned, because we are no longer the same person who made these plans.
-Anonymous-
However, you also know that when there is no more faith in any dream, at the same time all efforts are lost for something that leads nowhere, that is why it is no longer sustainable: although it hurts to give up the dreams we had. , we didn’t know how to live up to the circumstances that now no longer make sense.
You may find yourself in this situation of not backing down because the confidence that joined you keeps you in the comfort zone: after so long, the comfort of routine makes us fear what can happen when we make the decision to finish.
We’re trying to convince ourselves that we’re fine, but we both know they’ve left without salvation. You need to get out of your comfort zone and stop lying. We’re different from the two people who met at first. and today’s people don’t go together: we have to accept it.
“If you insist on staying in your comfort zone, you won’t get very far.
-Catalina Pulsifer-
We were a couple full of complicity who treat each other with respect and love, but all that remains between you and me is compassion, affection and nostalgia, magic leaves without anyone being able to do anything to avoid it: sometimes it takes more to maintain a relationship beyond our reach.
The incredible moments we spend together will be remembered and reminded us in the future that perhaps one day we will be happy to share our lives, in fact, when two people love each other so much, there are only holes of mutual gratitude, because the only evil that has been done comes from the outside: we are obliged to change and this cannot be avoided.
“Someone once said that when you stop to think that if you love someone, have you stopped loving them forever?”
-Carlos Ruz Zafon-
For all these reasons, I think it is best not to continue thinking that we are distant and that this distance is temporary, because we both know that this is not true, sometimes life forces us to make decisions like this, which we would not have imagined and which is the best for us.