Our society is based mainly on values that are based on materialism, logic and objectivity, it is as if we want to have control over all aspects of our lives in one way or another and do not believe in chance.
But in reality, everyday life is not governed by these concepts, the human being has to adapt to the unpredictable, does not always get everything he wants and cannot control the other.
- Human beings are often afraid of the unpredictable.
- Of which they cannot control.
- We fear the feeling of emptiness and even our freedom.
- It’s as if “Deep down.
- We’re afraid of ourselves.
A lot of people don’t believe in chance, because it’s a way to lose control of things and let chance or chaos dominate our day.
We shouldn’t be that extreme. You have to keep an open mind, be flexible and understand that you have no control over everything in life, this loss of control causes anxiety or fear in many people.
Often blinded by our egocentrism, we wonder: why did this happen to me?
Instead of wondering why this happened to him, ask what. It happened to me. Don’t get victimized, learn from this situation and reflect on everything that happened.
We know it’s not easy to accept that the unpredictable can happen and unbalance what we’ve accomplished with a lot of effort, for example, you try to do your job in the best way possible, but suddenly the business goes bankrupt and your stability disappears.
Think about why bad things happen to you. Focus your personal strategies to make changes and somehow change the meaning of your life.
We do not know whether everything that happens in our lives, good or bad, is the result of chance, but we must bear in mind that everything that happens favors self-learning.
You probably know many people whose main obsession is controlling all aspects of your life and especially the lives of others. They are people with a strong personal demand, who are not allowed to make mistakes, do not accept the unpredictable and distrust chance.
They prefer more structured situations, with established rules where everyone has a fixed role (the role of good father, good wife, obedient son, faithful friends, etc. ).
People who do not accept the unexpected are randomly and unexpectedly afraid, life often tests us to challenge us, get in touch with ourselves and get to know each other better.
However, everything in life deserves to be lived, everything leads us to learn and defines who we are today.
Don’t regret any time in your past. It is part of this perfect puzzle, which shapes your personality and allows you to open yourself to life and move on.
They say that life is an orderly chaos that we all think we understand, but we actually blindly abandon ourselves to it, as children who want to live everything and not be hurt by this experience.
How can we enjoy chance and the unexpected in our daily lives?In fact, many people complain that: nothing ever happens in their lives and that “exciting things only happen in the lives of others. “
Think about these ideas for a moment
? If you think that even if you’re not entirely happy, it’s better not to want anything else because things can get worse, you completely oppose your veto on the magic of chance.
? Our beliefs shape our thoughts and thoughts shape our behavior, which in turn creates our present reality. How about encouraging us and changing our thoughts?
? Just believing that we deserve better is already an incentive to promote change.
? If you abandon limiting thoughts, negative and defeatist attitudes, your mind will be open to any stimulus.
Loss hides in a thousand corners, in many moments, in a thousand glances, one of them can cross yours. Why not?
Do not resist circumstances and do not rate things as very good or very bad, everything learns, it is life lived and every moment is important.