It is difficult to believe, but judging others is very common, something contradictory when we often ask that they please stop judging our actions, because we judge and are judged constantly, without being able to avoid it.
But the damage caused by judgment deserves our reflection, is it necessary to look inside, look at each other and stop investing so much time to see what others do, how they do it, why they do it?
“Does the soul always tend to judge others based on what it thinks of itself?
? Giacomo Leopardi?
How many times have you felt ill-judged? Definitely a lot, that’s why you should avoid judging others, respect what others are doing and decide, because sooner or later you can end up doing what you criticize so much.
In many situations we do not put ourselves in the shoes of others, our vision is the only valid one and that prevents us from looking further and understanding other different perspectives.
Who said that the way you see things is the right one, let yourself be doubted, accept that both positions can be correct and that that does not make one better than the other, you are not always right. You may be wrong and misjuddly judge someone’s actions.
When we judge others, we don’t know the whole story, what’s behind that person.
How many people have no idea what you’ve been through?
Don’t try to look for better or worse views, they’re all valid!You can turn down something today that’s going to start pleasing you tomorrow.
Open your mind and let yourself discover new perspectives to broaden your world view. He’s starting to be an open, tolerant person. This will make you a better person and allow you to better understand others.
When you judge someone, you define yourself. You can give your opinion, but criticizing or not understanding this person won’t help you!What do you really want?
When you judge, your real intention is to make others see the world like you. That’s true and it’s not, but is it really true?
Differences are not negative because they help us open our minds to different situations. You can’t want someone to think or act like you. As I mentioned earlier, there’s nothing better or worse.
Judging someone can do you a lot of harm. Think of a situation where you’ve been tried, did it help you in any way, did it make you feel better?Did the choice of road they told you make you happier?
Judging hurts and that’s why you have to be very careful and stop doing it. We think we help when, in fact, we hurt. We believe that we guide when, on the contrary, we disorient.
At this point, it is clear that sometimes what we see is not the whole reality, every person is a world. You yourself, as we have already said, have situations and experiences that you have gone through, with which you have suffered and learned, but that only you know and understand.
So are other people. Everyone has a life with its peculiarities. It’s not about justifying your actions; What we don’t want to do is judge them. People have their reasons, and even if you don’t agree, you have to respect them. Maybe tomorrow you’ll find yourself doing exactly what you’ve questioned so much.
“People take different paths in the pursuit of happiness and its realization.
Just because they don’t follow the same path doesn’t mean they’re lost?
? Dalai Lama?
If you’re a person who judges others, first think about how you feel when someone judges you.
Throughout our lives, everything that happens to us changes the way we see things, what we’ve seen for a few years now, maybe not now.
Be flexible and never judge. You can give your opinion, but without trying to make people look at life the same way you do, mainly because yours isn’t the only valid vision.
“We will never be able to judge the lives of others, because everyone knows their own pain and selflessness. It’s one thing to think you’re on the right track; another is to think that your path is the only one. “
? Paulo Coelho?