There we hear a lot about this phrase, many songs sing it with passion, even in the movies, it is common, as in a scene in which the young woman and the idol try to convince themselves that what happened, happened and no longer matters.
While it’s easy to say this phrase, keeping it is not an easy task. What happened, happened! Sure, but when do we leave the past behind to move on?We insist naturally. If someone leaves us, we don’t want to know why the relationship didn’t work, and when you feel the desire, the desire is to rebuild suffering piece by piece just to think of more useless considerations.
- And when we’re the ones who abandon someone.
- We think we’ve done the right thing.
- “But what if I had done that?” Even if many of us don’t recognize him.
- We go back to the past forever.
- When we make mistakes and repent.
- When we are wounded or injured.
- We constantly go back in time.
- To regret what we have done and cannot A longer change.
- We go back in time to regret our luck.
- As if there were not a thousand better things about to happen in the present and in the future.
“We cannot live in the past. It’s a phrase we constantly hear, we can only correct our mistakes, overcome disappointments and move on. The time machine does not exist, nothing will return us to the moments when we were happy with someone we have already lost, nor will we get us to recover pieces of our hearts. Nothing will change the bad decisions we made yesterday, we can only do something for the future!
When we end a relationship or invest in a relationship that doesn’t work, we spend a lot of time building imaginary scenarios where everything could be solved, we run away from reality, and we expend energy on something that only saddens us, because it never will. We see life pass before our eyes as we try to solve the impossible.
We have to move on, move on. Ideally, it is best to think about when to make a decision, to think about the consequences before taking risks, after the choice already made what comforts us is that the regret of not trying is always worse than having tried it and not working. No doubt, if you’ve made a mistake, correct yourself and move on. If you don’t do any of this, one day you’ll wonder, but what if I had done that?
Doing anything and facing the past, going through the phases of repentance, anger and acceptance is a healthy and normal process. When we accept things, we are willing to move on, because we understand what happened and because we have overcome it.
The past is only when we really leave it behind, we are not going to be wrong to say that something has happened, if we continue to revive it every day, and with the busy days we live today, the calendar shows us that we must not spend energy and time doing nothing, with people and memories that will not return. It is as they say: new situations, people and experiences will always arise.
Making mistakes in the past allows us to learn from the mistake and move on. We will always remember certain situations, but it is important not to make mistakes in others. Some memories will always be with us, but others are toxic and negative, and we cannot be shaken by them.
They should only serve as an experience. The rest of them left and I forgot.