Psychological palliative care in the face of a terminal illness The myth of bonding and pacifism
What is love? We all know it’s a feeling or emotion that we can feel at some point in our lives, yet beyond that, we all have certain concepts of what love should be.
- However.
- Love is not a unitary concept.
- Let alone a closed definition.
- You must feel free to love those who destroy your plans and do you the best.
- However.
- For various reasons.
- We often do not.
There are many songs that explain what love is or what reflection this feeling leaves us, the words that the person will say whether we are in love or not and what we are supposed to feel when the other person corresponds to that feeling or not.
“Because love is a mad son, who came back today
If you have been or are in love, you know how you feel, although you cannot express it in a definition that semantically encompasses all the nuances, it is precisely the enigma and magic of love, which is not measurable or elective. .
Most of the time, he chooses us, even before we know it. The problem arises when this true and pure love chooses us, but takes hold of us by looking fat, or if we feel it for someone who was not “our type”. “. And now?
We realize that love isn’t just a romantic thing when we say that one couple “has chemistry” and another “doesn’t stick to glue” or that “love is over. “These statements show that we know that there is a biological or physiological aspect, but they also hide notions about how our culture or social influence interferes with the way we love.
From a purely psychological point of view, love is born of an emotional and sexual need, the social plane, the culture and the historical moment in which we live have a fundamental role in how and from whom we fall in love. , if you were born or raised elsewhere, probably your partner stereotype?it would be another.
How society normalizes and defines what love is, what are the different roles to play in a loving relationship on each side, and what is the best part for?Procreate and perpetuate your genetic code? He changed your ideas about love.
“We catch fish that are familiar to us,” yet we waste a lot of precious fish out of fear. For fear of what? From the unknown, because we have no previous experience of reference that will guide us to conceive this person as a couple, or by the public judgment to which we assume that we would be subject if we knew that person is who we are. in love with.
What if you are forty years old and still confused with the ideal of pure love?Absolutely nothing. They’ll probably think you’re a dreamer, laugh at you or say you need to be more realistic. Stop for a moment: this is your reality. It’s a big mistake to deny who you are or how you feel because of the judgment of others.
Historically we have categorically cataloged how we should relate to the opposite sex, yes, I say the opposite sex since the LGTB group unfortunately continues to be omitted or treated as a taboo when it comes to talking about love.
What are the implications of this? Characterizing the elderly as sad and helpless beings, as people with special needs, leads us to deny their emotional and sexual needs and therefore prevents them from being considered the object of an achievable desire.
A psychologically open and tolerant person, determined to live as a couple?You have a good chance of finding true love, after all, when one loves oneseed without taboo and likes the other as it is, without prejudice or reservations, self-esteem, hope and well-being increase.
This happens to all of us. In no media appears as the “perfect couple”, the silhouette of two lesbian women or two homosexuals, a white boy and a black girl, a sweeper and a lawyer, or a young writer and an older man.
Love is the greatest act of bravery
Not long ago a man with multiple sclerosis came out to the media who, prostrate in his bed, saw his baby born, shakes us all, makes us vibrate. Few would be determined to fight alongside you day after day.
We live in a culture of effort and minimal appearances. We are great selfish people.
Love implies a great abandonment, but without losing identity, is it learning, discovering?Someone who ended a romantic relationship was told there’s a lot of fish in the sea. I tell you one more thing: there are many oceans with fish. Love does not include languages, colors, ideologies, ages or gender; don’t be the one to take him out of prejudice or fear.
So, if you haven’t found your Prince Charming or caught the frog, do you think there’s anyone who understands women or not?Are we too complicated? Maybe you have a bad opinion. Open your mind and live: love can find you in the most unexpected place.
You will only know the true meaning of love when, without prejudice or hyphens, you let it be revealed.
The images of delicious delicacy and affection are courtesy of Luiso García.
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