Have you ever been overwhelmed by the feeling caused by the action of someone who helps you, heart and love, without expecting anything in return?This feeling is undoubtedly one of the most rewarding that we can feel, because thanks to him we feel connected with each other.
Similarly, the feeling that invades us after helping someone who needs us without expecting anything in return is sometimes even better than the feeling we feel when it’s the other way around, so don’t hesitate and give your heart to others, that the reward will be much bigger than you’ll get for being selfish.
- Giving with the heart is beneficial not only to the recipient.
- But also to the donor: to offer something without expecting an exact reciprocity has positive consequences.
- One of the main ones is the satisfaction of oneself.
- Which brings nothing more or less than an increase our self-esteem.
- An increase in self-esteem that gives us confidence as individuals.
When you do something for someone who is important to you, don’t do it thinking about the benefits it will bring you in the future, because it means you don’t put your heart into action, just your selfishness. often, the reward itself is to feel like we’re helping someone.
In most cases, these people will appreciate what you’ve done for them and somehow you’ll be rewarded. We must act humbly and help those who deserve it, because only that will make us aware of the true value of life.
The benefits of putting our whole heart into what we give and do are also reflected in the ability to value the effort others make for us. As the saying goes, “who is not grateful is not of good birth”, and we do not really know how far the other sacrifices to facilitate our journey.
If we all stopped to think about what others are doing to make our lives easier on a day-to-day life, it would certainly be easier to appreciate the value of small and unimportant actions, they are the ones that partly remind us that we need others as much as others need us.
Stop thinking that reward must be something material, because being the reason for someone’s happiness, even if it’s momentary, is a precious feeling, few things can satisfy us more than that, at least completely and lastingly. Think, isn’t it true, that when we strive for something, we’re more proud of the path we’ve taken than we’ve accomplished?
Realizing all this makes our true self open to others, and the French writer Flaubert once said that “the heart is a wealth that is not sold or bought; the heart is a richness that is given. “In this sense, the reward of someone who opens our hearts or us who opens ours without fear is something far stronger and more lasting than a material reward.
Then it’s good to be inspired by the people you care about, because their interest will be nothing but our well-being. The goal is simply to give our best: people will value us for who we are and not for what we offer or This is how you earn the affection and affection of others, also with a strong and true love and affection.
Do not hesitate, put all your heart in everything you do, you will feel more fulfilled and your reward will be multiplied.