Certainly, each of us has in mind some cases of very rich people who, because of their excessive attachment to money, have ended up having unfortunate fates. Cameras, corruption, prison or debt are some of the consequences that obsession with money can have. have in people.
Crematistic is the name of some people’s obsession with accumulating wealth and property, those who suffer from this obsession submit to everything to earn more and more, family, friends, couples and even the person are no longer as relevant to those suffering from this obsession when the opportunity arises to increase their financial assets.
- Your mind is based on the obsessive idea of making money.
- Without worrying too much about the consequences that this obsession can have.
Money, in perspective, helps us to live better in a world dominated by capitalism, but we must not forget that money is just a role that has a certain value of change, having enough money to live with dignity is necessary: you have to eat, have a roof over your head and dress.
The problem arises when we feel so empty inside or in need that we use money to fill emotional gaps.
For many people, money is a positive short-term booster. This reinforcement fuels obsessive ideas of accumulating more and more. The person with the creematics constantly needs this positive reinforcement, to feel that it is never enough.
But it’s not just that you deposit large sums of money into your account, in the society we live in, having more money is closely tied to success and therefore having more or less value as a person.
The enormous need for approval that these people have leads them to make great efforts, commit crimes and borrow for the sole purpose of showing thee as successful and admired people.
If we investigate a little, we can see that in addition to the generation of money and social recognition that these people need, there is something else, the adrenaline that is gained by performing prohibited actions or crimes also becomes a great booster. it can become a drug that distorts the reality of these people, making them think they are more interesting and attractive.
And how does it look? As in all cases in which hedonism becomes important in the short term, these people end up losing their most internal values and commitments, nothing has value for them, but at the same time no quantity, possession or accomplishment is enough.
In addition, in the long run, they end up losing their friendships, destroying their families, getting into trouble and ending up in the most terrible loneliness.
This obsessive need to be accepted and approved by others – because they are not able to do that being who they really are – leads these people directly to the situation they fear most. Thanks to their self-fulfilling prophecy, they are left alone and without the approval for which they have sacrificed so much.
The mental need of these people is never completely satisfied, this allows us to clearly see that the solution to your inner void is not as superficial as having more or less money, goods or properties.
The solution is to review your value scale and realize that everything you really need is in your hands.
Examples such as that of the Spanish broker Martín-Artajo, the Wolf of Wall Street, or cases of corruption of politicians convey the message of this article, the truth is that there are people so empty inside that they need something from outside to meet their needs. make these people want more than they have what kind of life do they want to lead?
These questions make us think that in addition to money, they are also interested in the image they think of these money projects in them, they need recognition, to be precious and powerful to others, in addition to the spirit that can arise when performing clandestine or forbidden actions.
The need for approval has motivated many behaviors throughout history, in prehistoric times what was not accepted by the group was outside the cave, with all the dangers that this could entail, death was much closer if we were not accepted by the community.
That’s where it all comes from. It seems that this need continues to attack us in some way, although we are aware that we will survive outside the acceptance of others.
The elimination of this absurd pseudo-necessity could lead to the healing of this psychological typology, in this way people might realize that money is an illusion: in fact, it serves only to meet material needs already met.
Human beings need very few objects to feel full in this world. When we acquire something, the value of the object lasts a certain period of time, which is very short, and soon loses its value; then we need an improved version of what we just acquired. One thing brands know very well is why they continue to launch more modern and modern models.
Behind this is this need: to show that we have certain things for others, receive praise and feel happy, but we must not forget that this is a fleeting happiness.
Let us not deceive ourselves: what really brings happiness is to feel full of the little things of life, but above all to love oneself and accept ourselves as we are.