The reasons for the love of being born between two people are numerous, some are not even really understood, just as a relationship ends for several reasons that, in part, we have not fully understood, the complicated happens when one of the two wants to end the relationship, but the other does not.
This is a complex situation for both of us, especially those who don’t want to end up, but don’t panic or start acting desperately, the first thing to do is to stay calm. Don’t talk or get carried away by impulses.
“Love does not claim property, but gives freedom. ” Rabindranath Tagore.
The next thing you need to do is analyze the situation. We have to look at the reasons why the other person wanted the relationship to end, see if, in fact, he’s in a final phase and then make decisions and act. But let’s look at this in more detail.
A stable relationship doesn’t end overnight, an unstable relationship does. Was there a compromise already established and accepted by both of us?Or was it an indefinite bond, alternating signs of approximation and gestures of distance?In the first case it is worth looking at what happened, in the second it is better not to waste time.
When a relationship ends, there are always signs that herald the end. Basically, there are three aspects that define if the bond is strong or if there is already evidence that the love is over. These three elements are:
If you look at the relationship and find that there are difficulties in all three aspects, the best option is to recognize that everything has ended, as difficult as it may seem, it has reached a point of wear that makes it very difficult to find it. and find solutions.
Sometimes the relationship also has problems, sometimes serious, but many strong aspects survive it, despite this, one wants to end the relationship, while the other objectively sees that there are opportunities to rething things and move on. ?
As always as a couple, nothing better than dialogue, just as nothing can replace it, it is possible, and often happens, that it is precisely this aspect that is failing, communication has been interrupted, but love is still there. However, one of them may be less tolerant of this situation and hasten to put an end to it.
In these conditions you cannot guarantee at any time an insignificant dialogue, it is necessary to choose the right circumstances so that they can speak quietly and without pressure, do not try to solve everything at the same time, first just take the opportunity to have a conversation A special dinner or a walk is a good time.
Sometimes, although there is still love and the two seek all the means to dialogue, the other insists that he wants to take him down, so there is nothing you can do. You can’t pressure your partner to see things differently, this creates distances and causes unnecessary wear and tear for both.
Anyone who wants to leave must be released. As much as you don’t understand the reasons or don’t think the person is wrong, staying in a relationship is not something to force. This is a serious mistake that only leads to the deterioration of the link, at that time it was time to say goodbye. Don’t think about what’s going to happen in a week, a month or a year, just focus on the present
It’s time for you to focus only on yourself, don’t blame yourself, anticipate the future and don’t make decisions, don’t worry about taking care of yourself and doing the things you love, recover the friendships you’ve forgotten, change your routine Love will come back to your life.