Don’t you know what to do with your life?Can’t find the right way? There are people who, at some point, feel that the course they are taking is meaningless; in fact, no path they can choose seems good to them, and so they despair at their countless failed attempts to try to bring about change that calms that feeling. . There is no future, no goals or goals, they are lost.
Everyone, at one point, feels this way, as if we were in a dead end, it is a situation in which we detect, at the same time, a great inner void: nothing on the outside, little inside.
- Although we did not want to acknowledge.
- Everything we have done so far – our decisions.
- Our rejections.
- Our way of life – led us to follow this path that seems to have no way out.
When you don’t know what to do with your life, when you’ve reached that point where you can’t find a possible way out, no matter the anxiety, anxiety, the urge you to get out of this situation. this will work right now. There’s something you need to do: rediscover yourself.
When did you focus on others and forget?When did you stop wondering what you really wanted to do?Since when did what to do with your life become the last priority?The way of life we have forces us to make the autopilot act as if we were robots, avoiding being aware of the present moment.
Now that you find yourself in this impasse, where you don’t know what to do with your life, slow down, this is the perfect time for you to become aware of yourself and what’s around you, so you can reconnect with the world. and also with yourself.
Your longings, your longings, what really motivates you, will be present to remind you of all these goals that you have, but that for a long time you did not want to see because you have lost yourself along the way. You think there’s no way out when the solution is in you. Motivation comes from yourself, but to find the right path, you need to know what you want.
In you, you know the right way. However, the time you spent living on autopilot diminishes your instincts and makes you feel lost now.
It is true that at first the reaction when you do not know what to do is to spin, kick, try to run in all directions, as if you were a horse in the race, however, you have to get to the point where you realize that you have to stop to be conscious and find the right way.
This is a very important step to take advantage of everything said above, however, you are also likely to realize that acceptance of reality is what really immersed you in this impasse.
We usually live with different expectations about how things should go, I finish college, I find work, then I love my life with whom I will have children and I will live very happy, it sounds perfect, doesn’t it?The ideal that many people aspire to, but what if everything goes wrong?
The expectations you may have do not guarantee that the seasons you will encounter will probably arise problems, difficulties and adversity, which will make you feel frustrated, irritated and refuse to accept that, on many occasions, what happens does not meet your expectations.
When we get to a point of great indecision, maybe it’s time to seek professional advice. With it, we will find out if to climb again to find the crossing where we missed or if, on the contrary, the solution is to look for more alternatives to advance to the same junction where we are stuck. Many times, what we end up choosing for one option or another will depend on the price we are willing to pay for trying to achieve one goal or another.
There are more favorable moments than others to live this existential crisis. Perhaps the first is when we become adults: we have to choose what we want to dedicate ourselves to and how we want our lives to be. The second appears at a mature age, at 40, with a crisis known to all in which one stage is left behind to begin another.
Expectations sometimes prevent us from being flexible in dealing with problems and difficulties that may arise.
In many moments of change, when we move from one stage to another, we may feel lost, unable to find the right path, it is a natural thing and that, at first, should not frighten us, however, if this happens, we must prevent the feeling of discomfort from bringing us to abandonment. Moments of change are also moments of intelligence and patience, to decide with your head, but also to take the chosen option safely. Tell us we’re wrong.
Whether going backwards or looking for alternatives, each situation has a way out, sometimes logical and predictable, sometimes surprising, random and enigmatic, for the former it is worth working, but for the second, as we said, do not let the hustle and bustle overwhelm you: the biggest obstacle to opportunity.