There are situations and people that do us no good, and it would be better to let them leave our lives: this lying friend, the idea that we should please others or the obsession with the past.
A person who feels guilty or regrets what he has done in the past can enter a vicious cycle of tears, sadness, and depression. We often forget that we cannot change the past and that the only way to be happy is to forget. If you really hurt someone, try to repair the damage caused by your mistakes. Know that there are things that cannot be changed and forgiven, recognize your mistakes, change your behavior, and move on.
- Friendship is one of the types of relationships that most enrich human life.
- Some of our friends have been with us since childhood; others we know throughout our lives.
- If one of these friends is only causing you trouble.
- Cheating on you.
- Enjoying your good faith.
- Disappointing you.
- Or often embarrassing you.
- It may be time to end that friendship.
- Internal conflicts because we feel responsible for our friends and believe that we should always help them.
- Remember that the most important person in your life is you and if this situation affects you negatively.
- Seek your well-being.
You may have a friend, parent, mother or companion who wants to change your behavior, probably wants what’s best for you, but it can compromise your identity, which is what you are, sometimes even unintentionally, these people can cause a lot of suffering, it’s a mixture of feelings: you feel guilty, you don’t want to disappoint them, but at the same time you don’t want to give up your dreams , living each other’s lives is a bomb that ends up exploding sooner or later, and the reward for trying to please does not compensate for the eventual loss of oneself. No one has the right to decide how to act or behave.
Some people stay in our lives because they are used to the comfort we give them, because they are afraid to leave us alone, because they do not believe that we can be independent, or because we exercise some form of coercion. you won’t be able to achieve happiness. When a person is not satisfied with us, we are also unhappy. Some relationships are not healthy for any of the people involved; don’t carry or demand that the other is what it can’t be.
To be happy the important thing is to “be and let it be”. Live the present, value your achievements, say yes to life, to new projects already yourself.