Life is full of opportunities, we just need to know how to harvest ours, so here I’m talking about opening a door. Sometimes we feel that when something is over, the world falls on our heads in a hurry, however, there is another way to look at it, and we may be lucky enough to have a new opportunity to embark on another exciting adventure.
I propose an exercise in reflection. In the next few minutes we will wonder why the doors close, what experience and wisdom each of them leaves us and how we can use this knowledge to open new worlds full of opportunities.
- “Don’t be like the majority who die waiting for their chance and spend their lives saying: it turns out mine didn’t happen.
-Hector Tassinari-
Have you ever thought about why a door closes?Remember, we speak figuratively, can a physical door be closed by a push, by the wind, by activating the lock, by distraction?There’s a lot of possibilities.
Now we will extrapolate the closing of a door to human life, why do they close it or close it?There are many reasons we can think about, located in dozens of possible scenarios. Let’s look at some:
Most of the time closing a door is a huge pain, if you have to leave your partner because nothing happened before, end your friendship with someone, leave a job where you were happy, leave the city where you live?cause a great sense of sadness.
Well, let’s think now about the circumstances that led us to close those doors, why did we get to this point?What happened so I had to let go of my partner, a person who was once the center of my life?Why do I have to leave town where I’m happy?
Think carefully and unhurriedly about the decisions you made and why you came to this situation. Don’t start judging others by everything that happens to you, but also find your share of responsibility, because there’s always something you could have done better or should have done. Or maybe not, but it’s important to be very clear, analyze it and learn it.
Now, once we have closed the door and reflected on the facts that led us to this situation, it is time to discover new opportunities and enjoy the world that opens up before us, embrace it with all your might, because there is still a Much to do.
“A problem is an opportunity for you to do your best. -Duke Ellington-
You had a bad experience of having to close the door on someone or something that you loved, loved or loved, he already thought and learned difficult lessons but knew after what happened, now, with this new experience, you need to look to the future with optimism and discover the new opportunities that open before your eyes.
You have more experience and wisdom. Use them to learn bad moves and avoid repeating them. Learn moments when you’ve worked the right path and reinforce your behavior in future experiences. Take advantage of all the opportunities that life offers you.
Nothing ends. Whether you abandon a loved one or lose a great love, your life is not over, there is still much to be done, many doors to open, adventures to live, people to know, jobs to start, cities to visit.