You may have already felt immense laziness when you go out with your friends or take a course in which you have so gladly enrolled, a part of you wants to leave, but when the time comes or the event approaches, it seems that laziness is present. Isn’t that laziness? Today we’re going to talk about situations where fear disguises itself as laziness.
Many of our emotions hide under each other and confuse us, it’s like wearing a costume to prevent them from being discovered and making us lose ourselves in an emotional maze, if we do that, if we get into their game and lose in their reality, it’s because somehow we don’t know each other and we still have to walk to mature emotionally.
- Laziness is just a way to protect ourselves and avoid what we don’t want to do.
- When the day we go out with our friends approaches or the course we sign up for begins.
- It’s when we start moving in a lot of thoughts until we come to the conclusion that we accept something we didn’t really want to do.
But you have to be very careful with these kinds of situations, if the first reaction we had was positive, but laziness comes as we get closer to the moment of truth, so it’s not that we don’t want to do that, is that we’re running away from something. Are we comfortable with our friends?
When fear disguises itself as laziness, it warns us of a possible danger, something we do not want to face and in what we do not think until the situation is about to become reality, so when the time approaches, an alarm sounds. What is the best thing that can happen to us so as not to face something that scares us and does not leave our comfort zone?Of course, laziness.
Laziness becomes a lifeline. It’s a reaction to escape fear, but can’t we fall into the trap of believing that we should be more assertive with our friends and say?Don’t we really feel that way. There’s something we’re not looking to see. A deep fear that uses laziness to be able to stay at home and not face it.
Fear can disguise itself in many ways so that we can’t detect it and not have to deal with it, so working our emotions helps us discover and end their costumes, let’s see what we can do about it.
Let’s say we’ve had failed relationships that ended traumatically, we’re alone, enjoying our loneliness, but every time our friends want to go out (and take their respective partners), we’re overwhelmed by this laziness. Staying home.
In this situation, we may think that we do not want to be with these people or that we are not in the mood, but it may not be so, for example, it can be difficult for us to see our friends happy with their friends. partners, when we have only had experiences of failure. Or, perhaps, it may bother us that they always bring their partners.
Although we greatly appreciate the company of our friends, we are victims of an appalling fear that is not overcome, the result of experiences, what we have not yet learned, what this fear tells us is that we will fall back into old mistakes or isolate ourselves so as not to face this unpleasant feeling.
When fear disguises itself as laziness, it just wants to protect itself from us, on the one hand, it is a protective mechanism of our mind to avoid suffering, but on the other hand, it is a limit to our personal growth.
Let’s start doing what makes us so lazy. We will understand our emotions and, above all, ask for help, it is important to end this fear. Allowing it to continue will only cause us to have a limited life, which is incompatible with well-being and happiness.