Do you know those people who always stand out from the crowd and who always want to get everyone’s attention?, they look very special and make a lot of noise, that is true, what you didn’t realize is that inside they are empty. of us, when we make a lot of noise, we actually feel a big inner void.
Empty people are the ones who can’t be heard, as if the whole external information system were meaningless interference, and they’re always surrounded by a lot of people, which makes us feel very sociable, but their only goal is to escape loneliness. .
“Like jugs, the emptier, the more noise they make, so some people are empty.
-Alexandre Dumas-
When we make a lot of noise, we think no one will notice our insecurity, an insecurity that you can deny because you don’t want to see it, but it still exists in you.
Have you ever had self-esteem issues?Often, confident people make a lot of noise to mask their inner void and so that their attention doesn’t go to their internal problems.
The decision to put reality into perspective is not always a bad idea, as long as we are aware of it. This can bring us temporary and misleading relief, but it can become a big problem if used systematically and continuously over time.
Have you ever found yourself talking too much, interrupting others and wanting to be the center of attention?Why didn’t you look inside yourself? It’s scary, it’s scary to realize that we’re not as strong as we seem, it’s scary to realize that we’re fragile. The image we show to the world will never be real if we don’t heal inside.
“The quest for perfection is a cover for insecurity. “
-Paulo Coelho-
We have all felt this emptiness and fragility at some point, the important thing is not to try to fill this void in any way, but to accept it to find the solution.
Believe it or not, being humble is much better than being someone people admire with lies and bitterness. True humility will never have a negative answer.
There are people who are afraid to be humble because they think that’s how they’ll go unnoticed, if it’s your fear, you’re wrong. You’re probably an insecure person, have a self-esteem problem, or have had a painful experience, and this is how you deal with the pain you’ve been through.
“If you think you’re too big for small things, you might be too small for big things. Be humble?
-Anonymous-
We confuse humility with simplicity, when in reality it is simplicity in greatness, in humility there is the ability to listen, be mature and empathetic with others, although all this does not come out as when you made a lot of noise, at least you. it won’t be empty.
Start gradually introducing humility into your life and learn to listen to others; it’s not just your word that’s important. Learn from your mistakes, realize that you’re not the best at everything and it starts to grow.
If you’ve ever realized that you’re not safe, that your self-esteem isn’t as high as it should be, that you’re afraid and you’re trying to fill that void by making a lot of noise, it’s time to look inside you and find your true essence.
Each of us is unique and we cannot hide behind appearances, make a lot of noise and live surrounded by many people will not fill our inner void.
And then I realized that despite being surrounded by many people, I felt empty inside.
Diving into your inner void can be very painful, but it’s necessary, you can’t be happy if you don’t solve your internal problems, it’s time to look for that place where you’ve kept everything that makes you suffer. problems and remove that weight from his shoulders.
When you are aware of all this and are willing to grow, you will understand that there is no need to make noise, because it does not solve your problem, just disguise it Are you ready to repair this inner void?