When I needed it most, you weren’t there.
. He tore me apart and plunged me into great sadness. When I needed it most, loneliness accompanied me. I expected more from you and ended up disappointing, when I needed it most I immersed myself in sadness, is it time to change this vision of me and others?
- We often need someone.
- Either because we feel bad.
- Because we needed support.
- Because we wanted a shoulder to cry on.
- But what happens when there’s no one in those moments.
- Someone who gives us the attention we need.
- Why.
- Then.
- Can’t anyone come and shake hands with us for which we scream in silence?.
“Many of your inexplicable pains have only one explanation: you didn’t like how others needed it or didn’t love you as you expected.
? Bernardo Stamateas?
Surely you’ve lived in a situation like this more than once?And if not, what a chance!
The worst thing that can happen to us is to realize that we don’t exist for that person we consider special. Is it a very negative feeling that results in emotions of abandonment, rejection, of not feeling loved?
When you realize you don’t exist for the other person, it can lead to a significant loss of self-esteem, especially if you’ve become accustomed to relying on others to be valued.
You certainly feel identified with many people who have emotional needs for this reason, because they cannot understand that people are not always with them, that there will be a time in their lives when they will be alone, you have to internalize this fact. People have something like a limit in their life, they only get to a certain point, from there you go alone.
It’s a difficult time, a period that tries to be delayed by many people, but it will inevitably come. No one can come with you, no one will be with you. You’ll be alone, you’ll walk alone. Doesn’t anybody even need to call you? This will be your worst moment, when the sense of abandonment will intensify in an unbearable way.
Loneliness is all you find when you’re not looking for it
That feeling of abandonment, which everyone has left you, that feeling of “Only in the face of danger?” That envelops you when you have to follow the path alone, shows the currents you’ve always found yourself trapped in.
Since we were little we’ve gotten used to doing certain things with friends, with family?But what if we were ever left alone?We must learn not to depend on anyone to follow our path, to do the things we want to do. Write this advice down and keep that in mind.
No one stops overnight, and if he does, it’s because he never cared
Have you ever found yourself in the position of needing someone who was unavailable? Learn from these experiences and learn to eliminate the phrase “when I needed it most, you weren’t there. ” You will never fail, you will always be there.
Don’t look for a hand to help you, you have your own feet, your hands, you have your body and your mind. You’re the only person you need. Don’t depend on anyone. Be happy! Learn to love and value yourself. You’re more than enough.
Image credits: Berit Kruger Johnsen and Bett Spencer.