Have you ever felt like you’re not a good person?We often make mistakes that make us feel bad, feel guilty, and believe that we are bad people. However, anything wrong means we’re bad.
Believe me, if you think you’re a bad person, you probably aren’t. Bad people don’t wonder if it’s bad or not; act simply, always for their own benefit, doing evil for no reason.
“Remember, whether good or bad, will it be all right too?”
-Jorge Bucay-
When you feel like a bad person, have you ever stopped to think that others can make you feel that way?Today, you’ll find that you often think you’re acting negatively, when you’re not really like that. There are many factors that influence, but the important thing is how you see yourself.
From childhood they teach us that we have to be good, but what is it really like to be a good person? To behave well, help others, never say no?
Some of the things they teach us hurt us. Being very good, many times, exposes us too much to others, we are vulnerable and we become a target who will receive all the arrows that throw at us.
As we grow up and acquire responsibilities, we often feel guilty: when we say no and the person gets angry, when we tell the truth and have more problems than if we had lied, when we keep appearances so that no one will judge us.
Enough! It’s one thing to be a good person and it’s another to be stupid and let others manipulate you. Don’t let anyone use you however you want or make you feel bad.
Why is this person mad at me?People ask for sincerity, but they’d rather listen to lies, isn’t it hypocrisy?
“Hypocrisy is the greatest evil of all. “
-Moliére-
At the right time, you’ll learn how to put people in their place. You don’t have to offer the other side and realize that in doing so, you’re not a bad person.
Sometimes being selfish is a positive thing. You don’t need to be available to others, because others aren’t available to you. Be free to say ‘no’. Be free not to let anyone make you feel like a bad person.
Emotional blackmail is perhaps one of the ways we feel most guilty, this happens not only between couples, but in different types of relationships.
Emotional blackmail is characterized by the fact that someone feels guilty if they don’t act as expected, a lot of people do, and it’s very easy to identify.
Emotional blackmail can make you think you’re a bad person. If you can’t give yourself up completely, if you’re not always there, if you can’t stay, then you’re a bad person.
It is very difficult to get out of this situation because our low self-esteem makes us believe that we are not good people and that we are causing suffering to others even though, curiously, we hurt each other.
Have you noticed how bad you can feel because of someone else?For example, sometimes we are afraid to say certain things because we know that the other person is going to feel bad, but the person eventually finds out and we feel uncomfortable. Situation.
In fact, the negative is not what you say, but how the person reacts, the person’s comments hurt a lot because he puts himself in the role of victim.
Isn’t there a heavier burden than feeling guilty about something you’ve never done before?
-Anonymous-
When you think you’re a bad person, think about what others have made you believe. What is being a bad person and what is really bad?Evil is what you do for no reason, it’s being a bad person.
But what if you defend your brother from someone, you can use offensive words or even physical strength. Evil and goodness are very relative, it all depends on the situation, so doesn’t being a good person mean you don’t make mistakes?