Sometimes we choose loneliness, and sometimes we have no choice, many people are afraid to be alone, the sense of emptiness that this brings with us, the time we have for ourselves.
Loneliness isn’t negative as long as it doesn’t hurt you and you can take advantage of it to get to know you better.
But what happens when loneliness defines me, I choose her and she makes me happy, is it possible?
“Sometimes I bow my head over the shoulder of the moon and tell him about that unfortunate lover called loneliness. -Joaquín Sabina-
We tend to be beings who need the company of others, connect, leave home, meet other people are characteristics that define us, otherwise we can often fall into anxiety and depression.
Today you will learn more about people who are defined by loneliness, who are happy to choose to live alone and who are not afraid of him Are you one of them?
There are two very different types of loneliness, the first is to isolate yourself from others and the second is to feel alone, you choose one, but not the other.
In this case we are not talking about the negative isolation that disgusts us, that makes us feel that something is missing, this loneliness that we talk about is the loneliness that fills you, a positive loneliness for you, that does not hurt you because it is totally welcome and accepted, it is your choice.
When I choose to be alone, I do not feel alone, I live in a positive and constructive reality, in which it is possible to reflect, to know each other more, to enjoy what I desire.
People who know how to live fully in solitude can be more creative and also discover more. Why did this happen? Because reading and creativity are activities that require concentration and tranquility.
“Travelling can be one of the most cost-effective forms of introspection. -Laurent Durrell-
This is called introspection, when the person is able to be in a healthy solitude, when he is able to look at himself and know perfectly well who he is looking at.
Introspection helps us to get to know each other and is very beneficial, self-knowledge will help us in our relationships, that is, in how to act in certain situations, knowing more about us will always be positive.
According to several studies, single people can have a lot of anxiety, social phobia, depression, fear and various negative feelings that surround them constantly.
In fact, a survey published in the Journal of Cognitive Neuroscience stated that loneliness was a problem affecting much of the population and causing serious health problems.
With all this, the word? Loneliness? It implies something negative, a concept that you have to get rid of, because all loneliness is not negative, because many times it is a choice.
Do you know what positive traits a person chooses to live alone?
Contrary to popular belief, single people have friends, but not many, is it because they appreciate the word?Friendship? And they know that not everyone can carry this label.
They are also very adventurous people who like to discover new places, it is rare that something does not surprise them, because they usually see everything as through a magnifying glass.
Let’s eliminate the concept that being alone is a bad thing. As long as you choose and feel good, go ahead! Focus on the right intuition, creativity, and observation skills you’ll have.
It’s not loneliness that chooses me, I’m the one who chooses it
Are you a single person? You may have felt, on many occasions, like a “rare animal,” but what you don’t know is that there are many people who look like you and appreciate your loneliness. Never feel bad about enjoying your loneliness.