? I want to tell you how I feel I am confused, I have lived for years with a wonderful person, a slight breeze in suffocating situations and a gentle warmth in the face of cold reality, we had much in common: easy laughter, the desire to build a life together, the desire to learn from each other, to share our free time and our creative curiosity.
Astonished by so many compliments to his companion, I told him that he should be proud of this love, yet he continued with the explosion.
- ? A few weeks ago I realized that something had changed.
- The laughter was no longer so happy.
- We were far apart.
- The life plans were outdated.
- I no longer had the patience to listen to it and his comments bothered me.
- I thought; What should I do?Now I feel a big void.
- But I’m still alive.
- What happened?.
I have tried to think rationally to reach the most coherent conclusion possible, to highlight this state of ambiguity.
Loveless dichotomy was present; What was nearby was far away
We often trust others and do not realize that the strength to face challenges is within us, we put our lives in the hands of people to whom we attribute everything we lack: imagination, spirit, etc. , and we put on a pedestal. Until one day we realized that this person is not as funny or creative, or as good as we imagine, our admiration ends and the much desired presence becomes replaceable and even irritating.
Gradually the person realizes that he no longer likes it and it takes courage to talk and end the relationship, this often gives us a huge sense of guilt and we do not know how to solve this situation, we are sad, disappointed, we are afraid to make bad decisions, we postpone these decisions and this generates more anxiety and anxiety.
But human beings are a survivor and have the ability to be reborn as the phoenix. Create new perspectives, new desires and new dreams. The important thing is to complete this phase, the hardest thing is to know when and how. Learn from experience, take care of your self-esteem and overcome your fear of moving forward.