For most people, love is a wonderful feeling, that is, the union between two people who are one; However, for others, love becomes an obsession and a manic desire arises to possess the other party. The signs show insecure and jealous people whose relationships with others are full of resentment; are obsessed with the person they want and track them physically or by other means.
In one relationship, obsessive love means that one person has gone beyond love and become obsessed with the other, in other cases, feelings can become an obsession when nothing is known about the other person and is simply known. or found somewhere.
- People with obsessive-compulsive disorder have low self-esteem because of childhood experiences.
- Which creates an emotional vacuum and makes them believe in someone else’s love.
- They are dominated by the feeling that if they meet.
- All their problems will be solved.
They are people who can see or meet someone and have a great impact, so that they do not stop thinking about that moment and that person, create feelings of affection for that person and end up fantasizing about them.
As with other psychological disorders, it is important to deal with the situation, but to do so, the person suffering from an obsessive-compulsive disorder must want to end this disorder to solve the problem, so consider the following tips:
? Stay away from the problem and let the person go; This is especially important if you are an obsessive stalker, because if you want to change you have to forget about that person, move on and walk away, so that the memories do not come to mind and the obsession does not grow.
? Look inside and understand each other’s attitude, because it is very important to understand that love is not binding and that there is no possession when there is love, because if possession comes into play, it is a warning sign that it is an obsession. and it will hurt you and those around you. Therefore, you must stop all these thoughts and be distracted by something else.
? Building confidence, as low self-esteem is the cause of this disorder; So choose activities that help you feel good, because they will give you confidence and help you get rid of that person and be happy.
? Choose a love that you love, because in addition to developing a skill that will give you more confidence, it will help you overcome that feeling of helplessness and depression, channeling all your energy to excel in this activity.
Seek professional help from family and friends, as a professional can listen to your problems, find the root cause, and help you find an individual solution or through help groups. On the other hand, if you have a positive circle of friends, the impact will also be very positive, and they will support and help you when you need it.
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