Finished, isn’t real life that happy love movie that everyone talks about, or that book where relationships are eternal: eternal love, inseparable friendship, family united to the end?In real life, love, in all its aspects, is not always enough, and having to say goodbye is quite common.
The hardest thing to say goodbye is when there is no longer room for a possible return, but only empty spaces between two or more people. Sometimes farewell comes as a law of life. In other words, the delicate part of a farewell is not the act of saying “goodbye”, it is knowing that this farewell means giving up and continuing.
- We often hear that life is like a roller coaster.
- Where once we ride there.
- We have to adapt to the ups and downs that this entails; but.
- On the contrary.
- We want to show that a happy life is a life in which things last forever.
It is in this difficult situation where the damage is, we feel unprotected when we discover that our truth changes continuously, that happiness is not constant and that sooner or later we will all be forced to lose to keep winning.
The people who arrive can also leave, just as when we arrive we can also leave. And when they leave or leave, what is left is what the person has taught us and what we teach him, good or bad: we must renounce what he has ceased to be, accept and learn to continue living with the part that has left us. and that makes us who we are.
Saying goodbye is one of the hardest times we’ll have to go through, because it involves a lot of other things that feed our ego, saying goodbye means letting go of something that we don’t want to let go and that we want to keep being there.
Saying goodbye means saying something we haven’t been able to say and haven’t said yet, doing what we can’t do with others, accepting what we haven’t embraced; and definitely saying goodbye is living all we’ve never lived and we’ll always miss.
? Make light even when it’s costing
at night, even if it’s
dead the sky
that opens and
the ocean just
that created an abyss
Blindness. ?
-White Varela-
In light of this, we have the strength, sacrifice and courage that we all possess, even if we do not believe, we are all able to look to the future, however dark, and have the courage to face the struggle, but only then. life will know we’re ready to be happy again.
Sometimes we don’t even have time to say goodbye: according to the law of life, someone we love very much has to move, even if he stays with us; other times, we say goodbye before we realize it: no one is more vulnerable to believing in something false than whoever the lie is true, Jorge Bucay repeated.
The proof of farewell, as we said at the beginning, is to see you happy after saying “goodbye. “When that happens, we will have gone through a slow process of inner healing, looking for who we were, what we want, and what we can be for ourselves.
The act of real saying goodbye comes when we look back and see bigger: we grew up because everything we lived was good until we said goodbye, we grew up because we hurt ourselves and managed to rebuild ourselves, we grew up because we realized that life only makes sense when we still want to live it.