A dream is only fulfilled when a person feels free to transform his reality, but sometimes there is a clear feeling that society itself orchestrates a thousand and one tricks to cut his wings, to submit to the molds where gradually one is subdued. a routine without glitter, without freedom.
In any library we find many manuals to teach us how to achieve our dream and our goals, they talk about determination, self-confidence and motivation, however they do not always describe the subtle relevance of all those dream blockers that exist so much. Around us, we pointed out a moment ago to society itself, to all those bodies with their policies and regulations that control us, however, we should also talk about families and even teachers.
- Maria Montessori said that the first task of education is to “stir life” but leave it free to develop on its own.
- Today.
- In many families and in many schools.
- Instead of stirring.
- Encouraging and igniting this spark so much that children can awaken their lives in happiness.
- They simply integrate them into a number of parameters to homogenize.
When we give the world people who only think about being equal, having what the neighbor has or realizing what the other is achieving, freedom is not true, it is not an ideal ground to make dreams sprout, we must not forget that the great Dreams born of the most refined minds are the ones that can change the world , those who help us aspire to a more dignified horizon, full of wonders and possibilities.
Sometimes we have the clear feeling that our personal and professional situations are like minefields, we live in a very uncomfortable present: bureaucracy, corporatism, lack of investment in human capital and the rigidity of our social structures are real barriers to our dreams.
Having seen all these enemies, we sometimes realize that to achieve a goal you have to give up something, there are many people who, for example, have had to cut ties with their families to take a course or to be happy with someone who was not accepted by their parents. It is also common for many entrepreneurs to risk everything to bet on a particular project, for a dream that no one believes in, but where they invest effort, money, time and suffering.
All these examples are undoubtedly real acts of faith, acts of courage that reveal something we must not forget. John Maxwell, an American writer and leading expert in leadership and communication, explains that talent is not enough these days to make our dreams come true. Should we fight, in many other areas. However, in all this daily struggle, what we have in turn achieved is to evolve as a people.
The evolution and rupture of all these mussels is something for which the human being is programmed: surviving in the midst of adversity allows him to achieve his goals sooner or later.
In the midst of the complex current juncture in which many are immersed, there is a truly paradoxical fact: many of our dreams are at the first steps of Abraham Maslow’s needs pyramid, desire, security and protection are goals that make us resist: a good job, a house, an economic mattress?
Similarly, the need for esteem or recognition is also a prominent issue on which we must invest every day: trust, self-esteem, independence, freedom?It seems that, one way or another, it was very difficult to achieve this self. -realization, that potential where the person is able to achieve the reality he has always dreamed of.
Just like Wayne Dyer said, when you dance, your goal is not to go to a certain place in the room. Enjoy every step of the way. Far from being frustrated that we have not achieved our goals or that we have gaps in the trust we place in ourselves, we must be aware that this is a dance that never stops, if you do the music stops and you lose your rhythm. , magic, motivation.
If there is one thing that human beings have always done since they looked up at the sky and discovered the stars, it is the dream, no matter how dark the night, the density of the jungle of our everyday world, dreams encourage us every day and push us to fight, not to give up, because no dreamer is small or no dream is too big.