There are times when leaving everything is the only option, far from being an act of cowardice or abandonment, who choose to pack up and go out on the horizon dress the skin of the true brave, because in the end they are all tired. to endure a broken heart, to cry in secret, and before the wind takes the soul, we must go.
Leaving everything doesn’t necessarily mean forgetting all the things we’ve experienced or breaking our identities, all our bonds. It’s just about changing, integrating the past, the present and the desire for the future into one being, into an entity capable of creating itself and not “recreating”?in suffering, in pain, in what can no longer be taken, like a sand castle by the ocean.
- In a way.
- We’ve all come in or we’re going to experience the same feeling.
- Realizing that something around us has lost its meaning: something has just expired.
- There are those who feel an uncontrollable need to try new things.
- While others feel the powerful obligation to move away from their environment.
- Because of their physical or emotional health.
In any case, leaving everything is not easy. In our luggage, we are accompanied by fear and uncertainty, and even if our head tells us “forget it”, the heart feels unable to close this bag.
What we have talked about many times on our website is that our brain does not like change, change carries risks and is therefore a challenge for our survival, however, there is a kind of situation in which this internal architect of emotions, instincts and behaviors pays us very important attention.
Let’s look at an example. We live in a time of intense stress, the demanding environment in which we live pushes us to the limit and even ourselves, far from being able to handle this pressure, we get carried away by this constant tide, but one morning, when we take the subway to go to work, our feet and mind choose a different course. We start walking, walking, until almost not knowing how, we reach the limits of the city center, where we only live calm, rest, balance.
We needed to escape. Our survival instinct takes over and gives us what can help us the most: distance and silence. Our brain doesn’t like change, but we have to keep in mind that it will do everything it can to make you survive, and that’s why this invitation to “leave it all?results in a need for “personal care”?which we cannot despise.
Out of curiosity, we’ll talk about John Tierney, this reporter? New York Times?He wrote a book entitled ?Force of Will ?, which has become a commercial success in describing one’s own experiences of stress, anxiety and external pressures.
Did you describe it as? Self-control maintained over time can reach and destroy us Living in situations of oppression happens sooner or later what we have described before: our brain changes the course of things to make us understand the following: either we make a change or just lose.
If the existence you carry now does not correspond to your inner riddles, stop, if you are a stranger in your own life, go in search of your essence, if the reality in which you are immersed is now full of pins, fly. Your physical and emotional health will thank you.
Now quitting everything is something that only we can decide, some may have enough to make small changes to achieve well-being, but at other times the occasional changes are not enough. They don’t relieve, they don’t heal, they don’t repair. We need to take it a step further to leave more distance on those personal cards that once defined us.
Here are some strategies you can think about
When it comes to leaving everything, you need to get an idea of why we’re doing it and what goal we have in mind, because when a person has a ‘why’, they can go through any ‘how’. change, do it effectively, to be who you really want: someone happy, someone who takes the reins, someone who gives a new chance to be happy.
Finally, remember that our only goal in this life is to “grow. “But you always have to look for the best places, because not all scenarios are healthy to feed our roots.