When we know what we deserve and we give ourselves that, we learn to prioritize a little more and get what we really need. This is not magic and the universe is not weaving its laws of attraction either. Is it our own will to be happy? , to take charge of our lives?
What do you think you deserve today?
- You may have thought of a break.
- Letting time run a little slower so you can enjoy everything around you.
- Here and now? No stress.
- No anxiety.
You may also have thought that you deserve someone who loves you, who recognizes you a little more, tends to work hard for others, and doesn’t always see all your resignations.
Everyone in us knows what we deserve, but recognizing it is something that can be difficult because we think it can be a selfish attitude.
How can I say aloud things like “I need you to love me?”, I deserve to be respected, “I deserve to have freedom and have the reins of my life. “
Make no mistake, because prioritizing yourself a little more is not a selfish attitude, it is a vital need, it is to be able to grow inside to be happy.
We invite you to reflect with us
Many of us are used to developing many limiting attitudes throughout our lives, beliefs rooted in our childhood or even developed later in support of certain experiences.
Are these thoughts present in phrases like “I’m not useful?”, “Can’t I do this, will I fail?”Why try if things always go wrong? A complicated childhood with parents who have never given us security. or that they have based their emotional relationships on emotional manipulations tend to limit us almost decisively. We become fragile inside and gradually lose our self-esteem.
Restructure your beliefs. Are you more than your experiences Do you deserve to move forward, deserve to be in touch with your inner being and recognize your courage, your ability to be happy in life?
What we deserve and what we need is as close as the link in a chain. We’ll give an example: “I need someone who wants me. ” It’s a common desire, but let’s start by changing the word?By? MEREO ?.
You deserve someone who can read your sadness, someone who can respond to your words, who can decipher your fears and be the echo of your laughter. Why not? By exchanging the word necessity on merit, we eliminate this toxic bond of attachment that we tend to develop in our emotional relationships.
Get started on your own. Are you the person you wanted to have by your side? The one who deserves to go through the stages of his life. In the end, someone will come and think of you. It also begins to grapple with these important dimensions:
We are often imprisoned by these limiting thoughts explained at first, there are those who find their happiness by giving everything for others: caring, tending, giving up certain things.
We may have been raised like this, but there’s always a time when we balance and something’s wrong, does emptiness, frustration, emotional pain occur?
Like everything in this life, there is harmony, the conjunction of your space and my space, your needs and our needs. Family life, couple life or in any social context, must be built through an appropriate balance where everyone wins and no one loses.
At a time when there are losses, we stop controlling our lives, we stop being protagonists to become supporting actors.
Take a moment to reflect on these brief ideas
? I deserve a day off, for me, in solitude, this will give me what I need: thinking, getting rid of stress and putting things in perspective.
“I deserve to be happy, maybe it’s time to do it? Some people or certain aspects of my life. This will allow me to get what I need: a new opportunity.
We all deserve to stop being prisoners of suffering, of our own limiting attitudes, open our eyes inwards, decipher your needs, listen to your voice, when you give yourself what you deserve, you can get what you need.