Psychological palliative care in the face of a terminal illness
At certain times in our lives the harmony that existed is broken, it is like a puzzle in which a piece does not fit well, what happened?Why does everything suddenly turn against us? These solid and safe pillars weaken and fill with cracks.
- Maybe your work has started to go wrong.
- Problems have arisen with your partner or the disease is hidden in your life.
- Feel identified and fully understand the feeling of helplessness as everything around you collapses.
“The loneliest moment in someone’s life is when they see their world crumble, and all they can do is look at it.
? F. Scott Fitzgerald?
But it’s not all negative. You should never give up, even if you lose the certainty that everything will be fine. Then we’ll share what you can do when your world collapses around you, without you being able to do anything.
We must not accept or give in to this situation, although your world is made of crumbs remember that abandonment is not an option, do you want to stop before trying? Don’t go, let it out! This is the first step in dealing with the real problem.
“The best warrior is not the one who always triumphs
and yes, what returns without fear to battle?
? Dolores Ibururi?
It can take time to think, to do something new? but above all, what we have to do is cry. Cry because we will miss you, then you will be reborn, you will rise more strongly to face all the problems that come.
Let yourself be unloaded. This won’t make you weaker, it’ll make you stronger. In addition, it will allow you to take your time to think about how to deal with the problem, what will be your next step?
Never give up. Everything can be solved. You were not made to fulfill and accept defeat.
Not everything was wrong and looking back can cheer you up and gain strength. He values all those moments when you had fun, when you were very happy. It’s not all bad! When things go well, we don’t stop to enjoy the moment, but we realize and complain quickly when things go wrong.
An example would be when we have the flu or any other disease that leaves us at home and in bed for a few days, that’s when we appreciated the times when we were healthy, but how could we not have done it before?
Don’t expect it to be too late. Value every moment of happiness present between difficulties, use them to gain strength and face what comes, even if you can’t do anything, you won’t be in this situation forever
I know it’s heartbreaking that an upset lasts a long time, but sooner or later it will pass!Don’t lose confidence, be strong. Everything’s going to be all right again.
As long as the storm lasts
Is the sun still shining in the clouds?
? Khalil Gibran?
After a long period of struggle, when there is no more strength, things will shine!When you least expect it, you’ll smile with hope again, everything will be all right again, and you’ll start not appreciating those moments you could. Don’t do that!
Don’t give up because your efforts will pay off. Sometimes we try to find a reason for our misfortunes, but that doesn’t exist, they just come in and you have to deal with it. We will learn, we will become stronger and we will be able to enjoy the moments when everything is going well.
A negative attitude will force you to isolate yourself, to provoke negativity. Be brave and don’t stay! Face this obstacle with maturity and you can emerge victorious. Your attitude will make you see a ray of light in the midst of so much darkness. Things are really getting better.