In many of our experiences we feel mistreated and humiliated, which we believe we have overcome when in reality it is not, when time passes and this abuse disappears, we begin to exercise it against ourselves without realizing it. worst enemy.
I must be good, humble, accommodating; because I don’t think I’m worth anything and I don’t deserve anything; because I consider it my duty, even if I never get it.
- That’s where we have to realize who we really are.
- People with very low self-esteem.
- Full of insecurity.
- Frustrations.
- Fears.
- Guilt?.
If you find it very difficult to value yourself, if you accept and recognize that you are able to succeed and achieve everything others have accomplished, you can become your own enemy.
Your worst enemy is not the others, but what do you think, how is it possible?How can I be my own enemy?
The criticisms you can receive, the humiliations, the opinions, the judgments you make about yourself . . . all of this, may or may not be accepted by you.
“Your worst enemy is not the criticism you receive, but the ones you accept. -Bernardo Stamateas-
You have that decision-making power, you don’t think you deserve it, do you agree with what others are saying?
Taking something simply because others accept you leads to low self-esteem and makes you your own enemy.
It’s normal for being surrounded by different opinions to make you doubt who you really are. Therefore, you need to stay away from all these people in order to reflect on who you are. Once you know, you’ll be able to face all these opinions and judgments in a much safer way.
How can I start not being my own enemy?
It’s hard to start being your own enemy, but it’s something that’s only in your hands, you have to be sure who you are and not let other people’s opinions tell you who you should be.
You should begin to see mistakes not as a burden and a disgrace, but as something you learn to do better in the future.
Everybody’s wrong, but that makes you feel humiliated. Start thinking there’s no error-free learning. With mistakes, you learn more than you think.
It’s a very simple question, but really hard to answer Do you know who you really are?If so, why are you so affected by other people’s criticisms?
You must learn not to compare yourself to others, to trust yourself, and not to get carried away by what others might say. You are unique, irreplaceable, with flaws, but also with abilities.
“Do you really know where your enemies are?Who are you listening to?The whining, authoritarian voice that judges every step you take?”-Bernardo Stamateas-
Trust, believe in yourself and do not allow yourself to be as others want you to be, being yourself will help you achieve the happiness to which we all aspire.
Your decisions are what will mark your life from today Who will decide in your life?You or the others, be a little selfish about yourself and stay away from what they’re going to tell you, your life belongs to you and you’ll decide how to live it.
Think that your self-confidence will allow you to move forward, test, experiment, while if you don’t trust yourself, insecurities will arise.
Do you want to be so perfect that he’s finally with you?The answer is not perfect.
Be natural, intend to progress, make mistakes, learn and live as you are. Get rid of everything they tell you, what blocks and paralyzes you. Get rid of everything and walk. Never allow yourself to be your own enemy.
Illustration courtesy of Malota