Usually, finding an ex-partner in our life isn’t easy, you’re not a friend, but you’re not a stranger either, and you know a lot of intimate things about us?It may even be that love is often present It is not the love that separates couples, but the changes, incompatibilities or negative gestures: thus leaving a feeling out of their habitat.
When deciding how we will relate to our ex-partner, we must consider how we continue to feel about our ex and where, outside of circumstances, we want to place him in our lives. Ideally, the new milestone in the relationship should emerge. by mutual agreement and which, little by little, the two will adapt or make it easier for the new relationship to be established as they wish.
- Is this ideal? However.
- This conversation is not easy because one of the most common reasons for interruption is the deterioration of the partner’s communication.
- Resentment.
- Unhealed wounds or simply a lack of skills often makes it difficult to compromise.
- Be it tacit or explicit.
But what are the ashes of the title? It is a mark, a path in which a very strong feeling is ignited, which is nothing but love. As all the way, it’s easier to get back to him.
Whether for safety, because there is still love, because there is an area that we have not yet explored and that we want to know better, or because, without a doubt, something that has prompted us to take this path for the first time. time remains present (at least in the unconscious).
To return to this path, memory contributes to this, because it tends to forget negative situations when surrounded by love, it is the desire of the other and the happy moments that are usually, to a greater extent, in our thinking.
It may be that our ex-partner was a liar and that has changed us, but that doesn’t eliminate our kindness, generosity or physical attraction that convinced us, if he made us lose our minds once, why can’t that make us lose our minds?Again?
Now let’s talk about fire in passion, especially on a physical level, in fact, very older couples who have had an intimate encounter say their sex improved after separation. When there is a formally constituted couple, there are also a considerable amount of commitments and routines that weave the relationship, elements that sometimes help inflame passion, but other times prevent it from being born naturally. passion returns. Let’s not forget that it’s closely related to love, but there are hundreds of witnesses who say or recount that the feeling is not the same.
On the other hand, the social censorship that existed before about uncompromising sex has largely disappeared, many couples wonder: if the two want to have an intimate date again, why not?What they often don’t know is that they secrete hormones. In this meeting, like oxytocin, the memories we talked about earlier increase greatly. Therefore, it is not strange that many of the reconciliations or twists of older couples begin with physical encounters without higher expectations.
But be careful! A passionate encounter with an ex to be great and, in fact, can be as attractive as comfortable and familiar (we already know something of this path), but it can also be very dangerous if there is an asymmetry of feelings in therefore, one side can be very clear that it is only looking for sex, while the other party can interpret it as the first step towards a return together.
In this sense, for the second person, these encounters may involve prolonging suffering that sooner or later he will have to endure.