We must not pursue someone who sees us coming and hiding, we must not pursue them when they already know where we are, who know our intention to follow their shortcut and who do not give us the step. to give us a chance.
Affection is not sought and disinterest puts an end to it, it is time to take minutes off the clock and the calendar sheets, it is time to resurface, to love us and work in our dignity. So whoever wants me, look for me.
- Affection does not speak the same language as selfishness and indifference.
- No.
- Affection is sincere.
- Impartial.
- Cordial.
- Reciprocal; he only knows interest when he seeks common benefit.
- When he tries to water his tree and grow.
Hang out? And asking for crumbs of attention and affection leaves a permanent mark on our self-esteem and emotional well-being, being ignored makes us feel small, insignificant and vulnerable.
Add to that the helplessness, frustration, and anger of not having the kind of relationship we’d like to have with that person who isn’t interested in presence and despises our interest.
Our self-esteem is significantly reduced when this happens, feeling this means that we cannot maintain a correct attitude towards ourselves.
Recovering what other people’s time and attitudes of indifference have diminished is no easy task, reassembling our pieces requires pride, courage and a certain healthy selfishness, which is nothing more than starting to take care of us.
Start looking for you and let them find you. Going after the people who ignore you is poisoning you, whoever wants it will look for it, and the one who doesn’t, is simply not a person who should be by his side.
Do you know that to start flying? It’s time to put that into practice, open your wings and get back on the road, so take your life under control and surround yourself with good people, who don’t drown you and don’t feed on selfishness.
We must know that the pretensions of the selfish heart can lead our way, so we must try to get rid of these stones that have been placed in our shoes as quickly as possible.
Therefore, to regain our self-esteem, we must understand that nothing can be possible if we do not take care of ourselves.
The normal thing is that once we get out of these vicious circles, it’s hard to stop losing or wanting something we never had, but we always wanted.
Letting go of what does not benefit us always brings a new and good wind to our lives, we will gradually rediscover this idea that we only need ourselves to live, that we are the most indispensable people in our lives and that we deserve. be surrounded by those who appreciate our company.