He who only seeks you when he needs you, does not deserve to find you, does not deserve to be called a friend, nor does he deserve his attention that, however long it passes, does not change his selfishness and selfish attitude.
This is not to say that these people are bad people, but simply that the relationship between you and them is not healthy, that it is not going well, this should not cause us any feeling of discomfort, we just need to understand that part of life is the fact that sometimes we win and sometimes we lose and learn.
- The bonds are formed and strengthened through reciprocity.
- Interaction and exchange.
- Because in reality the one next to us.
- Emotionally available at any given time.
- Is the one who seeks us with great interest.
- Both when he needs it and when we need it.
- That.
Indifference is the greatest indication of disagard, so we must not treat the people who treat us as a priority, firstly because the priority of our lives we are ourselves, and we must take it into account in order to have a balanced life.
Inaout attention, indifference and selfishness end up causing profound harm that hurts us a lot, creating lies in our minds as the thought that we do not deserve love, and we kill affection for ourselves and even what we have for others.
“You do not deserve anyone who, with his indifference, makes you feel invisible and absent. You deserve someone who, with your attention, makes you feel important and present.
You don’t deserve anyone to fool you with what you say and immediately disappoint you with your actions. He deserves to say little, but do more.
You don’t deserve those who only look for you when they need you, but they deserve you who are always by your side when they know you need it, this doesn’t deserve to be sad and cry, but that makes you happy and makes you smile. ?
Sometimes it hurts because we have a lot of hope in ourselves, because we repeatedly hope that an immediate miracle will happen that each other’s selfishness becomes gratitude and interest in sharing moments and support.
These desires have a degree of rigidity, and when we choose to stay away from them because they do not bring us anything good, after a while we think that we have made a mistake, that it was not really selfishness.
All we do in this way is make our emotions and well-being dependent on the wishes of others, who never stopped thinking about the past and realized that on some occasions he had already made a blind eye to all the trials and did so. Don’t you want to listen to their emotional needs?
We often ruin our present in the hope that our relationships will change, changes that will never happen if we do nothing to improve the situation, if we do not try to balance our bonds.
Often, the solution is to talk quietly with these people to realize the inequality that has arisen in the relationship. The problem is that some of the most brazen people simply hide an interest they don’t even deny.