Whoever seeks you out of interest does not deserve you, because the real reason is not you, but what you want to achieve through you, in that person’s mind you are an instrument, not an end, she will invent a thousand and one ways to succeed and when she does, will you be one more on the list?But you deserve a lot more, you deserve true love.
So the one who loves you doesn’t need your presence, he prefers it. He chooses you not for his own benefit, but to spend time together and open his heart. Eyes and gestures denounce these types of people. Because it is possible to perceive, feel love and sincere feelings.
Let’s see what differentiates those who love you in the interest of those who really want your presence.
When there is love there is more than an interest in the person himself; when there is love, there is no need, but a desire to conjugate verbs in the plural; those who truly love you choose you because you are who you are and accept everything in you, both your qualities and your flaws, but above all, try to love the latter.
Because who really cares about you doesn’t care how long you call or how many times you need your business, it’s there for you, because he knows you and knows that sometimes, when you smile, your inside is actually in pieces The only intention is to help you completely.
He who feels true love presents feelings in the form of precious details, without expecting to receive anything in return; whoever feels true love is not motivated by interest, but by the well-being produced by smiles and hugs. And when you get angry, you try to understand even if you think you’re not right sometimes. Whoever loves you does it because they feel that the relationship you have is above what might have happened.
Whoever really loves you will prefer to be your creator of happiness
However, the one who is motivated by interest always has a plan in which to give is synonymous with receiving obligatory, this person will give you something, but only if you also give him something, otherwise he will remember and tell you everything he has done. For you.
But it is not love, it is to use others for your own benefit, because anyone who is with you out of interest in the background is a selfish disguise who will sometimes use emotional blackmail to get what he wants, so we must be attentive and always open our eyes: it is the only way not to end up being a slave to the desires and longings of the person.
The biggest gift a person can give is to share some of their time, give away minutes, hours and seconds because you give away a part of your life and the people who love you know it very well.
Meetings for a coffee break outside the office, a quick visit during your work break, a call or a good day on WhatsApp? They are details that show the love and appreciation of those who make them.
Those who give time give a part of their life for nothing, simply because they want to, because they prefer, because it is on their list of priorities and people to deal with. One minute is all it takes for you to know that he cares. A few seconds, full of good sensations, are enough to leave an unforgettable mark on your heart.
“There are magical people, I swear. I’ve seen them
They are hidden in some corners of the planet, disguised as normal people. Hiding is his specialty. They’re trying to behave like everyone else. That’s why sometimes it’s so hard to find them, but when you find them, there’s no turning back.
There’s no way to get rid of his memory.
Don’t tell anyone, but they say their magic is so strong that if you touch it once, you’ll be stuck forever.
-Anonymous-
Because whoever really loves you will want to spend time with you, you will feel comfortable and at peace being part of your moments, however, anyone who does it out of interest will find that they are wasting their time, so it will not always be so. Available.
Whoever really wants your presence adds to your life, the one who does it only out of interest subtracts, because the one who always walks away in self-interest risks being left alone at some point.
Find people who like to spend time with you, even on a couch, talking, and stay away from those who only want you when they need you.
Life is full of wonderful people and others who have not yet been able to awaken and feel all the love and appreciation that others can bring, but the decision to choose who to identify with depends on you. The one who loves you doesn’t demand it. Da, don’t ask. Values, don’t destroy. Those who really love you are not only in words, they also prove it.