“He who loves you will make you cry. ” You may have heard this phrase from time to time throughout your life. And if popular wisdom succeeds most of the time, then it is necessary to reformulate the phrase “Who loves you” will make you very happy.
Why should we offer suffering and tears to the people we love?This idea, actually built on romantic love, brings us once again to the almost inevitable concept that love is synonymous with suffering.
- Faced with these classic views on the concept of love and emotional relationships.
- We are faced with the priority of changing this idea for our own good.
- For our personal and emotional balance.
Love should never be blind, we should never dive headlong into a relationship blindfolded and self-esteem in the other’s pocket.
It is necessary to build a conscious, mature and responsible love, it is important to never forget that the one who loves you will not hurt you, will make you very happy, everyone who loves you with integrity and respect will seek to make you happy at all times.
Think of love as a little flame. It is a fire that enlightens and comforts us, but we have to feed it every day to keep it on, to increase its intensity and perfection in its light, in its heat, to make us even warmer and happier.
Love must be made with the maturity of two people who feel complete, who do not see their resignations as sacrifices, but as sincere acts that strengthen the bond of the relationship, which leave out the ego to give priority to the whole: the couple.
We must understand that if we accept the idea that loving involves suffering, we will be much more permissive from the beginning with certain things, with certain renunciations, limits, manipulations and selfishness.
We know that many have decided to close the doors of love because they are tired of suffering, because their hearts are full of wounds and disappointments, signs of bleeding, and gaps in desanthing.
To love consciously and safely, we must first know how to love each other, and although a dignified loneliness is always better than a company in need, do I love you?, coming in a sincere voice, it will be worth healing yesterday’s disappointments.
We all have our wounds, our disappointments of the past, yet love is an adventure that will always be worth living, at any time in our lives, for this we must be aware of these aspects: