This society is governed by rules that, although we believe are not present in our day to day, are more obvious than we think, let’s say that the company has produced a mural with instructions, limits and actors, which we are all.
All over the world we can see how these rules of the game can vary, and what for some is ideal, for others is a horror, because it does not allow you to express your true individuality. Can we say that’s always the case, much more comfortable to sail in the wind in favor?and not feel like they’re against the current.
- People who have said something moving to the world are not characterized by this fact.
- In fact.
- Could we say the word? Comfortable? is the last one that would define them.
- They are made of a vision that can push them towards disappointment and discomfort.
- But they are willing to take that risk because they are true to what they really think of themselves and not to satisfy the will.
- Of others.
Certainly, many times you have found yourself lost in the countless options to define yourself, integrate or simply feel adapted, something that is wrongly assimilated as good.
In reality, we are all born unique and the only way to integrate ourselves is to elucidate the truth that each one contains in it, if we do not we will be subjected to dictates and currents within society, which can be totally incompatible with our way of being and being in the world.
So the first thing to think about if you ever feel uncomfortable is whether the lifestyles offered by the world are really going to be even more empty for your mind, you need to reflect on all the doubts that have stirred your mind.
Suffering in this world to be yourself does not compare to the terrible existential emptiness of living without knowing where you are going and what you really want, because you will adapt to something that you think will give you security, but that will not be fun for you.
Look around you and see yourself from another perspective that is not judging yourself or comparing yourself to others, think about the people who marked you: perhaps it was a multitude of contradictions, surprises, wise reflections and silences, perhaps they came to you because they attracted you Special people they do not meet by chance.
Perhaps they were a breath of fresh air, people with a particular talent or a diluted authenticity among a number of people who never contributed anything in their lives, perhaps they made you rediscover the meaning of an afternoon, a walk or an endless conversation.
If you’ve ever met people like that, do you think the ball’s on your court now?You have to try to be the person you’d like to meet. Don’t submit, don’t change, even if this world sometimes seems absurd. underestimate talent and kindness and, on several occasions, reward appearance and bad intentions.
Make sure this chain of small human favors doesn’t break because they made you think you’re wrong about something. We all have a right to be wrong, what we can’t forgive is to end up suspecting who we really are.
Each of us was born with a gift, and it is totally unforgivable not to develop it, it’s not about being better than anyone else, it’s just about developing the ability to grow inside and be able to give that gift to others.
If you do a good job, people will thank you, because in a world where ordinary and unconsciousness appear more often than they should, watching someone develop their gift with their heart and skills is something that really changes us.
It’s good to know what’s good and bad around you, the difficulties, the realities of others, but what’s going on in your life, that’s the question you have to ask yourself.
Why do many people, immersed in their thoughts and doubts, in their fears and disappointments, watch their lives go by without clinging to it, perhaps out of disappointment, for not seeing the things around you that excite you?
We cannot judge these people, we do not know their deepest suffering, but if you too succumb to disappointment, this human chain of favors, details or great opportunities will not find an ally in you.
Don’t let the world let you down. If you think you have something special, don’t you have a hard time fitting in?be yourself. The world will thank you.