After a difficult week working on three different jobs, can’t I sit alone in a bar for a beer?Why can’t I end a bad relationship?Why can’t I choose to be single?Why can’t I choose to wear an outfit that makes me feel good?Why can’t I swear sometimes, why can’t I have heterosexual male friends?
If we go to a bar alone, eat something or drink a beer, women themselves look at us as if we are forgotten or looking for a man, if we end an unhappy relationship, we are crazy and we do not value what we have. If we choose to stay single, we are extremist feminists or lesbians. If you wear a summer outfit, it’s to show the body and call a man. If you swear, you’re “male. ” If we go out with heterosexual friends (men), we certainly date some or all of them.
- And I’m going to be a little arrogant at this point: I pay my bills.
- Drink and as with my money.
- Work (I don’t even consider work because I like what I do) like crazy.
- I like to meet different people.
- Sometimes I even swear.
- I buy the clothes that I leave very well.
- I don’t live or maintain an aspect relationship and.
- To top it all off.
- I have several male friends.
- Heterosexuals.
- With which I have never had any relationship other than friendship and will continue to date them.
I’ve always acted and thought like that. I started working early, living alone and, I know several people, I always liked having my space and going out, a thousand times I’ve been dancing alone, even married, or for a beer and eating something, and I’ve never seen anything wrong with that, you know why?Why isn’t there anything wrong with that? I am a free human being, in the literal sense of the word.
If people were a little more concerned about their own lives, judging others less, it would save much less those who are not attached to stereotypes or backward thoughts, and they would certainly be happier. They would see that they can (and should) do much more and, as long as they respect the other person’s space, they can do whatever they want.
Can you consider me selfish, boring, extremist? But I’ll still be happy my way, without attachment. Life is too short not to enjoy it, I love life, I love people, I love the universe, nature, I like to relate to everyone who does me good and that includes me, above all, myself. First. With or without marriage, children, friends. Love yourself Enjoy every second. And I say one thing with conviction: whoever wants him very much will love others with much more respect and wisdom, and he will no longer be a “judge”.
Osho’s words: “That’s why people are so effective at finding faults. Do they discover flaws in themselves?How to avoid finding the same flaws in others?In fact, they will find you and magnify you, make you so great. “as much as possible. That seems to be the only defense; in a way, to save appearances. You have to. That’s why there’s so much criticism and so much lack of love. I say it is one of the deepest Buddha sutras, and only an awake person can give you such a perception. The person who loves himself can easily become meditative, because meditation means being with oneself.
namaste