People are a fascinating conglomerate of attitudes, beliefs, desires and aspirations. Understanding why you fall in love with a man or a woman and not others is a challenge that has caught the attention of psychologists for a long time. Emotions are rooted in our brains in some way. that’s hard to understand, but they’re the ones that come implicitly and almost magically to ourselves, our personality and our desires.
Attraction is sometimes based on needs that we are not aware of; aspirations and desires that, at first glance, seem to be defined in one type of person and not another.
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When we question these processes that occur in our brains when we are in love, magic loses some of its charm to move us to a colder world, where we are determined by chemistry, by a wonderful mixture of neurotransmitters capable of making us feel as well known as “being in the clouds”. Endorphin, encephalin and phenyletyline are responsible for our euphoria and happiness; give us an injection of positive emotions, however, what activates these processes, which cause our brain to focus on one type of person and not another?
Sometimes we are attracted to people we feel good about because they remind us, in some way, of our parents, they give us safety and trust. We are attracted to them because they are familiar and being with these people gives us a pleasant sense of affinity.
Another theory is that of correspondence, according to scientists, when you fall in love it is very important to share similar experiences and have lived the same things, have similar tastes and values, it is a good way to choose a partner for our lives in all these aspects, making our existence easier and more exciting. It’s another kind of very rewarding affinity.
Sometimes admiration for someone translates into love. It is this person who serves as a mirror and shows us the virtues, aspirations or dimensions that we always desire for ourselves but which, for some reason, we cannot achieve. It is here, for example, where the attractions for very different people of Appear: sometimes we are attracted to people who are confident, outgoing and enterprising, while we are more insecure and a little shy. Opposites are attracted because, in essence, they complement each other and meet the needs of each one.
Many studies assume the importance of so-called pheromones. These are substances secreted by certain glands of the lips, armpits and neck, thanks to an organ called vomerasal, regardless of the sense of smell, is a smell that creates sensations, something unique in each person and that, in a way, also determines us.
These are the most common theories that are established when talking about passion and explain why one falls in love with one type of person and not another. Whether or not they are the right people will tell us and we will realize ourselves, when this blind phase of passion loses its intensity, its clouds make us see reality.