A star means nothing, until it disappears. It’s sad, but it’s true, we don’t value every detail and every presence. We do not know the value of everything that is part of our lives and that is why we neglect many aspects of our lives. That.
So when you least expect it, everything changes and you get lost without knowing what to do, it may be too late to cry and the pain of loss makes us cry heartbreakingly.
- If we stop to think.
- We will realize that we are often unable to understand what is essential in our lives; what we really need and what we want to keep.
- We try to justify our neglect of others with the false belief that “everything is forever.
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But no, we are not made of the same material as eternity, and if someone does not value our presence, we end up offering our absence, it is important to pay attention to the signs, because we are all tired of insisting or staying if we are not valued.
Problems do not usually occur overnight, but are preceded by games of silence, irritation and misunderstandings. These behaviors are just a reflection that something in us is suffocating us and that we need to breathe.
When you face great conflicts in a cold and distant way, when you no longer want to discuss problems, when you think everything is lost and that you let love “cool down”, it is very difficult to change that situation.
In other words, problems cannot be solved on their own; Should we strive to listen and understand even the silences?
The purpose of a discussion is to wake people to trouble, because otherwise it will be useless. Similarly, silences must flow with strangeness, with time and mystery. Its function is to unite people without the intention of coercing, but to solve pending. regain understanding and complicity.
Silences and discussions unite us if we know how to understand them, if we recognize their existence with all the ingredients that compose them.
If disagreements help us get to know each other, we approach people who walked away from us, without saying goodbye.
Don’t say goodbye if you’re ready to try again. Don’t give up if you think you can still fight. Never tell someone you no longer love them if you don’t want them to leave, never say goodbye, because saying goodbye means disappearing and disappearing means forgetting.
We have a bad habit of not valuing what we have, as well as valuing when we have already lost it, when we realize that we have given up an important part of our lives, we suffer a lot: whether it is a person, a friend or a great love.
This suffering can occur when a certain situation ends, or some time after the end, but in any case, we end up hurting ourselves.
We value what we have only when we lose it and only know what’s missing when we find it. Remember: love must be cultivated every day, in every detail, with the worries and even discomforts of everyday life.
Loving means waking up every day with a person in mind, making you happy, talking with love, caring, having tears of joy and happiness, and prioritizing them. Don’t let love be for tomorrow.