Have you thought how many times, out of fear of suffering, you didn’t want to live a certain situation and be happy?Happiness is free and available in abundance to all, but we insist on being unhappy at will. the past is recreated for the present, focused on a future that we don’t even know if it will materialize as conceived.
How many other misfortunes of love have not been sighed for life, thinking that the love of the past that made the heart cry so much can return to this love of the present and bring the same pain, but it does not work well. like everything in life, you have a 50% chance of success, everything in life is 50%. If you don’t take any chances, you’ll never know what might have been and I don’t know you, but most people regret what they didn’t do than they did, because the responsibility for our happiness is only ours, that is, I’m responsible for my happiness, you’re responsible for yours, that’s responsible for theirs and so on. you take control and risk something, if you repent, you regret what you did and not what you didn’t do out of fear. You call it your responsibility and you won’t regret it. This may not work, but you’ll say, at least I tried.
but suffering is totally an option, pain is not, pain is part of life.
Read these 5 tips to move forward in your life and not get stuck in the past:
There will always be a risk that something won’t work, but it will never be the same again as in the past, because you’ve had this experience and you know how difficult, sad, painful it is and that’s fine. control the situation, after going through something similar, we can focus more on the solution than on the problem, especially since we have already found a result the other time, so now it will be easier. Use the experience in your favor, as an ally and not as a reason to bring the pain of the past.
2. La betrayal hurts a lot, but it is a very common situation, unfortunately, to think that your partner will cheat, create monsters in your head, feed jealousy for something that did not happen in this relationship will only bring pain and increase the chance that something will happen This is because our thoughts are transformed into energy and the energy attracts others , if you think about it so often, it’s very likely that your partner will cheat on the relationship. You don’t realize it, but people and everything around them feels that energy vibrates negatively. Then be minded with good thoughts. At first it can be a little difficult, but over time it becomes a habit and you will see that being happy in relationships is up to you.
3. The future has not yet arrived. And the past is there, so focus on the present, be aware of your moment, do it paying the utmost attention, leave the automatic. When you have coffee, have your coffee. Feel it, try it, look what happens while you drink your coffee, and this tip is perfect for everything, when we put consciousness into action we focus on the present and the present is all we have, so make this gift of God worthwhile, make the most of your moment now.
4. No worked with one, it didn’t work with two, it didn’t work with three. What should I learn from this situation? This is the question you have to ask yourself and not whin around the corners with the face of, “Oh my?Because with me? Each of us comes into this life with a purpose, a mission, and there are those who say that everything we go through is decisions we make before we incarnate or reincarnate, so don’t stick to suffering. Go through your process of sadness, then disconnect from the past. Nun Cohen says: all emotion is memory. Don’t get mistreated with so many Ays, understand that what has happened has helped you to bring you here and make you a better person, one day you will understand why it didn’t work, in the meantime, smile for your life!
Being happy is not a state of the verb having or being, being happy is not a condition. To be happy is to be. So stop creating conditions of pain and sadness, stop programming for victimization, open yourself to the happiness you are. You can feel pain and be happy, you can suffer and be happy, you can be sad and happy, the opposite of sadness is joy, happiness is to recognize every moment, of joy or sadness and yet to feel at peace, knowing that everything that happens, happens for some reason that at that time it is not up to you to understand, just to learn.
Put a smile on your face, open the window and open your heart to a new stage, do not bring to your present what the past was in charge of throwing there, do not carry in the future the bitterness of this past that only wanted to learn Keep your thoughts in the present and find the happiness with which you dreamed!