More and more news is being published about people who have kicked the bucket, put an end to it, and radically changed their lives.
Some travel all over the world, others change cities, change their hectic, slow lives for a “slow life. “We (Bruno, Martin and I) made that decision. We jumped into the void, literally leaving our comfort zone. Shall we leave Brasilia, a good job, at home? We created a blog and moved to Uruguay in search of a fuller life.
- With the decision.
- A lot of people got scared.
- Many questions were asked: “What are you going to live on?”.
- “Work where.
- “The answers were always uncertain.
- After all.
- We didn’t know what to do (which was part of the plans).
- And that’s precisely why some people thought we’d gone crazy.
- After a while.
- We started giving the answers people wanted to hear.
- To see if they were more relaxed!.
I was having trouble changing a life and telling people that I was starting to see the less romantic side of newspaper headlines. I could understand why most people just don’t change, even if they’re not happy with their own lives. respect, a name to keep an eye on, a job to fight for, financing to pay, good or bad, creates a sense of “security”. You have rules to follow, rules to reach, clear goals. In addition, belonging to and being recognized in a group creates a sense of existence Generates fun. You’re part of the herd.
However, when he announces that he will no longer follow the socially default scenario, people tend to react with concern.
reconsider your path and live your daily life differently, in practice, the glamour of radical change disappears. The looks of concern and judgment are very open.
People are unable to accept the uncertain with peace of mind, let alone accept the different, but why?Where is solidarity, empathy, encouragement and the desire for everyone to be happy?What happened to our society?
We were all educated and programmed to live in an environment. You can paint and embroider all you want, as long as it’s in this frame. You feel empowered and even encouraged by those around you, but rest a safety, while most support you, is because you’re not really out of the mold. Try to radicalize the questions and trials will arise.
The environment in which you were born and the people around you are already creating expectations and setting reasonably reasonable parameters for your life. When you raise the flag that it is possible to do it differently, the weighted system comes to you. time, in a subtle way.
Therefore, you don’t always realize that you’re giving up a dream because of the invisible mold that pushes you back. And you always give up your dreams convinced that you’re actually making the best decision for your life. You have the illusion that you’re making an autonomous decision. Imagine, if it may be different, how are everyone who has spent their lives without looking for something new?It is very difficult for these people to recognize the mistake when they have already left many dreams in the name of life they have accepted. It’s much easier to deter you.
So how do you get out of that pool?How to stay strong without giving up your plans?
You want to know, if the environment is what limits you, change your environment, connect with people who are already doing what you want, with 7 billion people in the world, it’s very likely that someone has already done what you wanted to do. Just find them. Today, with the Internet, it’s even easier.
You don’t even need to know this in person, it’s the easiest way to expand your possibilities and find acceptance and encouragement to make a more radical change, after all, what’s radical for some isn’t for others. point of view. And if everyone is a unique being, why do we all have to lead the same life?
So, what are you waiting for?
Do you want inspiration to change your life? He knows the bubbly life.