As the name suggests, in simple terms, attachment has to do with how much or how much we should let our relationships flow. Attachment is formed during the first two years of life and establishes how we relate for the rest of our lives.
Knowing attachment patterns allows us to recognize it in ourselves and others. In this way we could have a better understanding and better control of our behavior in the world of relationships.
- Attachment is achieved through the relationship between the child and at least one caregiver.
- Allowing the child to have normal social and emotional development.
- Depending on how parents or guardians respond to the child’s physical and emotional needs.
- Different patterns of attachment will form:.
These attachment patterns leave a deep mark on the psyche, so the predominant pattern of attachment in early childhood will determine the quality of relationships in adulthood.
Early childhood is a crucial stage where the foundation will determine the feeling of happiness or unhappiness for the rest of your life, so ultimately, to go beyond the topics, it’s not education or wealth, or intelligence and beauty that really matters. but the love we receive and are able to give, according to our style of attachment. In conclusion, we could say that, in the end, we are not even too “sticky. “not being too disconnected is the key to maintaining healthy relationships ??
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