Don’t put limits on your suffering. Stretch it so hard that it looks stretched all over an avenue to come after you, creating a strong boomerang effect. To suffocate you, blame you, immobilize you. Don’t put limits on the people around you, be a good wife, a role model.
Extend your patience until you can no longer, because we have always been taught that sacrifice goes hand in hand with virtue, although that does not mean nullify our lives and desires. You can choose that. Don’t set limits, but you should know you’ll never get one. Thank you or a pardon. That people will get so used to seeing you in a certain role, that they won’t believe you deserve respect for everything you do, for the meaning of your own struggle.
- The direct consequence of enduring things that hurt.
- Malicious words.
- Beatings.
- Abuse and neglect is to become the perfect prey to the urban jungle.
- The perfect bait for all kinds of predators.
No one blames you for being mistreated or having suffered irreversible psychic metamorphosis if you couldn’t count on the help you needed in time. Some people have suffered so much that they think they’re just a punching bag.
You should think that at least, if you can’t have the strength to move forward on your own, you’ll always be able to deliver the last force of your breathing, the rage that hides the desires of your sighs, or the last effort to climb a ladder to help others complete their steps.
No one blames you for reaching this state of emotional deprivation, the feeling that every hint of magic and creativity inside has been absorbed by circumstances, but if you’re still lucid enough to realize you’re in this state, it’s time to take a step. slow down and slow down in certain situations.
You may find yourself at this wonderful point on the road where you know that no one will come to your aid, but they are not obligated to do so either. Are you in time for what you call an “express cure”? you. A social detox, rich in vitamins and without toxic human additives.
There’s no shortage of psychopaths in this world. Unfortunately, they are sometimes extremely difficult to detect; others are just weak shadows with perverse characteristics; unjustly, sometimes people of a character who refuse to remain silent in the face of injustice are treated worse than the former.
Therefore, the price of not knowing how to set limits is very high, this happens when we refuse to see reality in front of us, when we do not know how to detect violations and / or face them in time. your fear of abandonment, criticism or stigma becomes the best ally of those who do not hesitate to make your weakness their first skin to cushion the blows.
There are so many types of people, so many complexities in human relationships, that it would be impossible to know why some people work one way and not another, if everything followed a divine scenario or plan, everything would be boring and meaningless.
However, some relational patterns seem to be repeated at one time or another, we look at them, we fight them and we suffer from these patterns, these are the ones that are characterized by a communication system in which some people have no voice. someone imposes no limits on their abandonment, even if that means their misfortune.
Relationships in which a person refuses to think of himself first. The price of not putting limits on requests, unsolicited reviews and bad manners is that you will never receive courtesy.
Don’t ever expect a? Or a? Thank you?Someone who has long exceeded the limits of psychological violence with you. These words of courtesy and gratitude will be addressed to someone who, perhaps without giving anything, has already earned the right to all praise. .
Maybe it’s a good time to get your ass back, isn’t it?Psycho? A little, until you’re first in your plans and the first on the list of people you can make happy.
You can still take many surprises, know how to put fences on your resistance, rebel your other side, but without offending and pushing your limits as well as your limits with steel. Don’t ever expect a?Or a? Thank you? That allowed you to kneel to keep it upright. This person doesn’t deserve you.