That’s all for him / her, you can’t live without that person, with him you feel like a person in your own right, but without him you are nothing, at least that’s what you think. Your constant thought is “without you, I don’t exist. Maybe you felt it once, maybe you have experienced it or are living it. “
When your whole life revolves around someone you love, your world collapses if that person leaves and suddenly everything starts to need meaning. You feel abandoned, vulnerable, just . . . You don’t know what to do or how to do it. This person was everything, and now you have nothing.
- “Depending on the loved one is a way to sink into life.
- An act of psychological self-mutilation.
- Where self-love.
- Self-respect and personal essence are offered and presented irrationally.
- -Walter Laugh-.
It’s normal to feel this, because if you’ve shared time with this person, you may feel empty for a while, but does your life and existence depend on them?What is it, without you I don’t exist? If that’s the case, we should be talking about emotional dependence by now.
The void we talked about earlier can occur when a loved one dies, it can be a mother, a father, a brother, a spouse, among others, it is something we cannot avoid. Because of the circumstances of life, those people who were all to us are gone, so it will take us a while to assimilate and accept the emptiness we feel now.
But what happens when someone leaves our camp?
We cannot keep anyone on our side, nor can we guarantee that all relationships will work, but what we cannot do is cease to exist, take care of ourselves, think of ourselves when that person leaves, you must always think of yourself. Even if you’re with someone, don’t let your life, your happiness, your well-being depend entirely on the other person.
You’re really wrong if you think it’s true happiness. You have to be free, be good to yourself. With this, you can share your life with the other person, without ever giving him the power to decide your life Why do I suddenly give the reins of my life to this person I love?
Maybe you suffer from low self-esteem, maybe you give everything to that person, maybe you’re afraid of abandonment and you need to put up with as much as you can, looking for the security you need so much.
In order to free yourself from this addiction you must take into account certain attitudes that prevent you from moving forward and blocking your actions, if you do not have at your side that person who is the center of your existence. You need to take care of your self-esteem. Love yourself and give yourself the courage you deserve. Don’t put your life in anyone’s hands, because only you have the power to decide your trip. So what should you consider?
These and many other circumstances are what make our happiness dependent on others and not on ourselves as it should be, in some cases we confuse love with love with necessity, this does not always bring us good things and the relationship may not be healthy. You must be at peace with yourself without anyone. Learn to be alone, learn not to depend on anyone.
You may be afraid of loneliness, but is it worth being with someone just for fear of walking alone?This person can give you confidence and security, but the relationships you’ve established will be destructive.
Don’t let yourself be unhappy in your life, because in your hands is the opportunity to be happy for yourself. Get rid of the bonds and meet your inner being. He will never leave you and will always be with you. Without you. ? I can exist Without you, it’s still me.