How can you ask someone to love you if they don’t love each other?It is impossible to feel good about others if we do not start from our own hearts.
So let’s talk about some of the keys to improving your self-esteem.
“Loving oneself is the beginning of an eternal love story. -Oscar Wilde-
If you need other people to love you, you need to start with yourself, so we can give you a series of tips that can be a great help to start enjoying who you are.
“We all know that self-esteem comes from what you think of yourself, not what others think of you. -Gloria Gaynor-
We begin with this phrase by the wonderful singer Gloria Gaynor, perfect for illustrating this first tip.
The only person you’ll spend the rest of your life with, of course, is yourself, so, like you, because the most important being to you is inside.
Remember that you are a very valuable person, always think about what you are worth and the good you do to those who love you.
If other people think you’re not worth it, don’t let that lower your self-esteem, because in the end you run the risk of falling into the terrible pit of depression.
Even if you’re a busy person, it’s important to find time for yourself every day. Find a space on your calendar every day to be alone with you.
Think about how you are, what you did right and what you did wrong, when you were happy, and when you suffered. In short, plan a small part of the day to get to know you a little more.
Thanks to the time we spend ourselves, we can get to know each other and value ourselves a little more.
Thus, it is much easier to love oneself, since we find our most intimate essence, our true and wonderful essence.
For others to love you it is important to practice self-esteem, if we get carried away by bad omen we will end up believing that we are worthless, that is, we have to believe in ourselves and move away from the toxic ones. People.
Human beings who are unable to value themselves only find the confidence to move forward, undermining their self-esteem.
Thus, they achieve small, insipid successes that allow them to keep advancing in life for short periods of time, until they need to hurt someone again to receive a new boost.
It is obvious that this way of being is truly self-destructive, so these solitary, dependent and dictatorial beings become toxic people who need proximity to other fragile personalities with low self-esteem.
They are people that we must avoid as diseases, because ultimately the relationship with them is really bad for anyone’s health.
In fact, toxic people don’t like you, even if they shout it out loud; they simply need you because they can’t face each other, to fight their inner fears and obscurities.
Try to understand them for what they are. If you need to degrade yourself to feel loved, you are actually living a lie.
Another good exercise you can do to have a little more fun each day is to make decisions, don’t let others decide the course of your life.
Be yourself choosing the path you want to take in the world, this security is seen positively by other people, who will love you sincerely for it.
“In fact, it is our decisions that determine what we can become, much more than our abilities. J. K. Rowling-
Don’t forget to love yourself very much every day. Don’t get carried away by stressful work, a possessive family, or a toxic environment.
You’re the really important person and others should love you for who you are, not what they expect from you.
If you really need and want to be loved, start with yourself, make decisions, move forward in life with firm steps and don’t let anything take away your hope, your dreams or your confidence.
People who are truly worthy of your affection will understand and love you to be who you are. Love yourself a lot.