Trusting is much more important than trusting others, this may seem strong and even different from what our parents and teachers have taught us, in fact, when we are children, we rely heavily on the people around us, but life can make us suspicious. often rightly, but often for no particular reason.
And we are even more cautious if they betray our trust, either for a relevant reason or simply because they have spoken of us behind their backs. There are times when the people we trust very much disappoint us.
- We don’t have to trust anyone; It is important to have your eyes and ears open to follow the development of a new relationship.
- We trust because we believe that it is something important.
- Beautiful.
- So it is necessary to be alert and know the person in whom we believe.
Being betrayed is a difficult experience for anyone, it is a personal attack on our honesty and good feelings, often, in the face of this situation, some people prefer to isolate themselves, become antisocial and prefer loneliness, perhaps for fear of greater betrayal.
But think carefully, how many people have we met in our lives, most are trustworthy and few disappoint us, so why allow them to affect us so much?It’s unfair to others and to yourself.
This is not to say that we are not affected by each other’s behavior, the problem is how to act next. Are we going to reject all the people who want to bond with us?Will we be defensive with the people who come near us?What if we lose someone wonderful or a situation that would change our lives for the better?
Once the sadness has passed, make an effort to return to normal life to find people who are worth it. But do it with your eyes wide open and very attentive, to put your trust in the hands of those who deserve it.
Trust is something we acquire and accumulate through years of experience and good relationships with family, friends, colleagues, customers, the store owner and even the stranger we find on the subway and it helps us in a difficult time, with people who are always attentive to our needs and who will help us if we have problems and who will laugh with us when we are happy.
We often see the world as a vast and strange place, full of dangers and suffering. Create your own world and trust people again, with open arms, attentive senses and a awake heart.