Luck, luck, luck. His influence goes far beyond winning a good prize playing the lottery, so we can enjoy good health and be right when it comes to building love on the right path with those we love.
He has played his part since we were born by providing care, a family, a context and a number of opportunities that we would not otherwise have, so what we did not control was present in our lives even before they existed.
- The situation is similar to what happens at the beginning of most card games: each player comes out with certain cards.
- Which will give him some advantage or.
- On the contrary.
- Bad luck.
Being one or the other will not depend exclusively on the cards our player has stolen, but also on the cards that others have stolen. With social relationships, keeping a certain distance, something similar happens.
Throughout our lives, we know very different people in very different ways, could it be a new companion, a lady waiting for the same bus, someone who tries to return the scarf that flew and we almost lose it?
Certainly, if we stop to analyze, we will think of a million situations in which it is easy for a conversation to be born with someone we don’t know, these people would be like our players’ cards: we have no control over who. will work with us in the situations we have imagined before.
Nor do we have much control over how they relate to each other, nor about their openness and willingness to get to know each other, but we could try to bring out this relationship that goes beyond chance.
Yes, there are factors that we control that will be essential to get to know the other person better, so that our new relationship can continue: from the vote of confidence to the interest in what he tells us.
In any case, connecting with some people can be immediate and almost magical. The fact that harmonization is sometimes simultaneous is due to the fact that complicity is based on the perception of proximity.
Having said that, it must be said that the opposite can also happen. In other words, we can also make these same factors, for which we are responsible and aware, cause the end of the relationship.
In fact, and while this is paradoxical, it’s much simpler than the previous one, the list of harmful facts that can end a relationship is endless, and usually only one of them is enough for that to happen.
Is it that what happens in the film comes to mind, how to lose a man in ten days?In this document, an intrepid journalist tries to use all the strategies that go through her head to get a man who is trying to have a relationship with her to finish.
The reason for your relationship and the way you act is to try to show that there are certain behaviors, uncomfortable for the couple, that end a relationship, so she can’t be direct and say, “I don’t want to have a relationship with you. “
However, we can do that, but do we often use indirect strategies to achieve what we could achieve in a nut words?Prayers that are perhaps more harmful to the present, but fairer and even kinder over time.
In this way, we can be more or less successful in our relationships, we can be better or worse seducing or conquering, but we must not forget to see reality head on and clearly.
We can do many things to get as close as possible to someone we love, and also to make someone who hurts us disappear or for whom we have no interest.
Recognizing this power is undoubtedly the first step in using it, we will allow ourselves to think about it and, therefore, build pillars of good social intelligence, also with others, also with whom we choose.
Every person who enters our lives will play a certain role, some will be a test, some will use us, some will love us, others will love us and others will teach us, in any case we must try to get the most out of it. ourselves and we appreciate what we have at all times, in addition to the flaws, because everything (absolutely everything) will offer us an apprenticeship.