Sometimes we adopt the judicial method with our friends, we are the vigilantes of our mind, subjecting it to a continuous examination and judgment, asking for explanations, not satisfied with this, most of the time we offer the opportunity to other people to evaluate or evaluate us. judge us, with the risk that your opinions and judgments will not be satisfied.
Do not seek explanations abroad and answers that only you can give yourself, in an intimate and peaceful way, who cares about others thinks that it is far from that goal, the truth is that pure souls and occupied spirits have neither time nor willingness to meddle in anyone’s life, and people who are sure of themselves do not allow anyone to do so.
- You must be accountable only to yourself.
- Not in a curious way.
- But in an open and frank way.
- Only each of us knows why each of our actions.
- Decisions.
- Joys and sufferings are subjectively.
- Deep down.
- In what we only know about ourselves.
Sometimes we claim that other people in our same situation would have acted in the same way, but in reality it is unfounded and inconsequencent. Comparison with the rest of the world is useless if what we are looking for is inner peace and not social approval.
We must try to help our hearts in the complicated task of our memory to emotionally integrate what we have experienced throughout our lives, avoid seeking coherence in everything we do, put a label, choose whether our actions reveal the search for a reason, a feeling, a will or a desire to avoid failure, criticism or pain.
Sometimes our story has several interpretations and unknowns, but it always has a common denominator: overcome fears, get rid of masks, swim against the current of our traumas and ghosts, seek love, avoid loneliness.
If life is not always coherent and just, there is no point asking for so many explanations, the others do not deserve then our own reflection, the explanations must come from me to explain something that has always worried me. own questions with my own answers.
There is something that almost everyone wants: the memory of a good time, the memory of a triumph that seemed impossible, a collection of happy and meaningful days, although many days leave us orphaned by illusion and hope, we all have good memories and attitudes. who make us proud of ourselves.
It is practically impossible for everything lived by a person to be negative, sometimes a simple walk on the beach in total freedom is worth a lifetime, a passion lived in the past is the most valuable reason to want to improve, progress and evolve.
To reconcile with oneself is to whisper in a low voice and in secret, without others knowing it and not being able to hear it; to reconcile with oneself is to know how to sing for oneself, without it hurting so much that it prevents something new and good. born in you. Because we are not born knowing: we live learning. Because knowing how to fly is putting your feet on the ground and knowing how to move your wings to get to the top.
Because no one knows what you want and doesn’t even feel what you need, to reconcile with yourself is to look at an old photo, where you still didn’t know what others expected, but you felt what you wanted for yourself. .
Sometimes the disappointments, caused by fleeing from everything before, are the engine that guides us to be what we always wanted: someone brave who fights for what he wants, who risks without fear of losing, and with the certainty that this bet is worth less. of what you want.
If the opinions of other people do not define you, do not continue to value them more than your own opinions, there is no age to start from zero, nor is there a limit that prevents us from moving forward, this gives you the same time you spent circulating, so In the end you ended up seeing what you want for yourself. Do not be so responsible to others and laugh more than you fall in love with. Your life and that of your loved ones will eventually thank you.