Have you ever stopped to think that some people do more harm than help?You may not have noticed, but there are probably a lot of toxic people around you.
Toxic people destroy their self-confidence, they are negative and treacherous; you don’t need it in your life.
“People can inspire or exhaust you, choose carefully
? Hans Hensen?
There’s nothing wrong with being honest and saying what you think. The problem begins when the person devotes most of their time and energy to criticizing without doing anything.
Don’t be careful if the criticism isn’t constructive
If you don’t want to lose that friendship, explain that criticism doesn’t help you at all, and if it doesn’t work, that relationship ends.
“I think it’s very healthy to spend time alone. Do you have to know how to be alone so as not to be defined by someone else?.
? Oscar Wilde?
People who take all their time can be family or friends and do so without asking you if you have availability, the problem is that they are looking for your support, but they do not help you when you need it.
Try to reduce the amount of time you spend with these people. Talk, explain that you can’t spend as much time with them, and if they’re offended or if it doesn’t work, hang up the phone.
There are people who like the role of victims and never take responsibility for their mistakes. If you have people like that in your life, get ready: it’s always your fault. Don’t let them get you involved in this guilt game.
Therefore, it is important not to get into this game and analyze the situation from outside, so as not to lose sight of it.
“Love and compassion are needs, not luxury. Without them, can’t humanity survive?
? Dalai Lama?
We don’t need these people in our lives because they don’t have the ability to understand our problems, in fact, they are unable to understand and sympathize with those around them.
Often, these people have personality problems or narcissistic tendencies.
You will realize that they are incapable of “calzar”, something basic to behave ethically.
These people cultivate negativity as if it were a virus
My advice is to avoid them as much as possible, because if you contact them, you will be in a “deadlock”. They are always anxious, worried, pessimistic, depressed and keep complaining.
“Can we lie with words and silence?”
? Adrian Rich?
Some people who claim to be friends would have no problem talking about you.
When you realize this, you may feel angry and eager to end this friendship. The problem is that dishonest people can hurt you in a number of ways. In addition, they can disrupt their relationships, lie and spread rumors.
To avoid problems, do not share information with these people
Some fake friends only come to you when they need you, they don’t bother to lie or say anything to get what they want, they can even tell you sad stories so you can sympathize with them and increase your advantage.
Manipulators know how to obtain information to know their weaknesses and use them to their advantage, they are not ashamed to abuse their generosity and conscience.
These people use every means to hurt him. They may not even notice, but they make a profound impression on your soul. They can be known, friends or family.
Do your parents still criticize you?Do you have friends who always make comments that affect your self-esteem?
These people can question your honesty, your efforts and your skills. They’re looking for more attention and support, but they don’t know how to ask. In your learning process, this can cause you a lot of problems, so it’s best to leave.
Life itself is already complicated, imagine you’re taking all these toxic people with you.