We must let go of those who never insisted on staying, those people with transient feelings, who made us invest time and imagination. Letting go requires courage, but far from accepting such an act as an end, it must be seen as the beginning of life. something new.
Who has never been forced, once, to finish a stage of his life?Sometimes they call it “closing cycles. “
- However.
- This idea of circularity.
- Rather than giving us the vision of something that ends with a beginning and an end.
- Allows us to better visualize an entity that never ends.
- As a kind of eternal cycle.
- We must see these stages of our life.
- As a line along which we evolve.
- Along which we evolve as we grow.
And to grow, we let some things go, while we win others. Life is a breakthrough that cannot be stopped, that crushes and leaves us breathless, and there is no point in getting stuck in something or that someone knocks us down, as stone does when it falls into a well.
Those who do not recognize us, who harm us and cause the erosion of our being, in our essence as a person, violate our growth.
However, it may take us a while to realize that we don’t want to see it for a while, but unhappiness is something that no one can hide, hurt, weaken and erase. So don’t let that happen. In life, there always comes a time when it’s better to let go, let go?
Letting go, finishing a stage in our lives, it’s not just saying goodbye to someone who shares life with us, in an act of decision or courage.
You may not be giving up, you may actually have been abandoned. In this case, the idea of letting go, taking this break and moving on is vital.
We must abandon those who have abandoned us, because if we do not we will be trapped in a myriad of negative emotions that will do us more and more harm, and those responsible, in that case, will be ourselves.
Closing this cycle of our lives, in which there is still an immense pain of abandonment, takes time, pain must be lived, weeped, assumed and then accepting what happened until we obtain forgiveness, once we cauterized the wound, and when we free ourselves from the expense of being able to forgive, we will feel more able to let go with the utmost fullness.
An abandonment is the breakdown of a bond, and as such, should we?Back?
Until recently that bond was nourished by love in the relationship, now that the umbilical cord is broken, we must meet, take care of ourselves, understand ourselves to strengthen the bond with our self-esteem, look back at the future Reinforced.
Don’t keep your nostalgia, don’t focus your gaze on yesterday, because the past is gone, if it was, isn’t it?And remember above all that those who live with nostalgia do nothing but feed suffering, and become stagnant, while idealizes a past, allowing the present to be lost. Your chance to be happy is ‘here and now’.
He who feeds anger, disrespect and resentment becomes a prisoner of those who have hurt him. It’s that simple and brutal. Whoever angrys you and concentrates all your contempt makes you eternally captive to your own negative emotions.
Forgiveness is not easy. Sometimes we assume that forgiveness is a renunciation of ourselves, which is like doubting and seeing us as victims, anything further from reality?
To forgive, you must have self-confidence again. No one is as strong as the one who can forgive those who have hurt him, for he, in turn, shows that he has overcome fear, that he is no longer afraid of the enemy, and that he feels freer.
When we abandon resentment and anger, we return to our original state, our hearts heal again, and neglect negative emotions. Only then does the act of “release” become easier to achieve, as well as liberating.
Don’t invest time in those who don’t deserve it, in those who have done nothing to be by your side or fight for you, open the way and give that person freedom, let them go because the current is not worth fighting, because every door that closes is an opportunity that opens.
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