We learn to love not when we find a perfect person, but when we see a perfectly imperfect person.
Sam Keen
- Do you believe in the existence of fate?I don’t know if you agree with the idea that there’s one person for each of us.
What is probably correct is that thoughts like these are ways we find to explain the simple and common truth: the time to meet a person is very important to determine whether it is “for you” or not.
We do not want to suppress the magic of thinking that fate unites us with our companions, but one thing is clear: our hearts are the ones that inform our minds if they are ready to love.
When this message reaches our being, a person will enter like a ray of sunshine into his life and become the person you choose to love.
I’m going to tell a story. When I moved to another country to continue my studies and continue to “learn to live”, my situation was not very good, I did not feel and, above all, I had not yet learned to love myself. it’s not a dream, I didn’t feel very comfortable with myself, let alone with my heart.
But I met the one who’s my best friend. He fell in love with me, the feeling that this situation was happening to one of the best people I’d ever met hurt.
You know why? Not knowing how to love myself didn’t really allow me to love such an amazing and special person.
His heart was and is ready for it, mine is not yet ready, even if I wanted to be in every way.
Have I felt throughout this stage? And I still sit down?Helpless, knowing that I cannot love because I am not yet able to love myself, my heart and my being, and I am saddened to be able to lose him for that.
Maybe at another point in my life things will be very different, for now all I can do is feel their love in me and slowly warm my heart.
With this, I learned that love is felt when both people are willing and excited to share it.
For all these reasons, I would like you to understand that it is very important to identify yourself and assume for yourself when you come to an appropriate time in your life to offer and accept love.
Sometimes we choose to love when we feel vulnerable or scared, we need someone to take care of a situation where there is something we don’t have, this moment doesn’t have to be negative, it can also be the right time. love is a perfect union between two people.
It makes you feel full because you feel fulfilled, complete
Opinions differ as to where we may or may not be prepared to have a relationship and truly love, and this is often the worst poison in a relationship: we must believe that our hearts are ready and that we have just found an equally prepared person.
We’re doing everything we can to make something work that’s not ready for it yet.
In my case I did and I keep trying to do everything I can to start loving my best friend, sometimes the emotion I feel is frustrating, because I decided to want to love this unique person, who loves me in such an authentic way and extraordinary way.
I will not deny that I have often thought that if this does not happen it may be because it is not the right time, certainly even you have thought about your life and your endless relationships, but the situation, the time or the moment are not the only elements for love to work or not. The timing isn’t the whole, but it’s part of it at all.
I was once told that compatibility between two people didn’t matter. If you’re not feeling well right now or if the other person’s life doesn’t get better, we may not like it completely.
All of this doesn’t mean you shouldn’t start a relationship if it’s not the right time, but trying more than you think you’d be willing to do could be painful for both of us.
Just get carried away, enjoy and, most importantly, learn to love yourself. Do not live with the idea that you can change what another human being needs, wants or simply your personal moment.
Learn to be honest and honest with the other person and yourself. The important thing is to turn yourself in and get involved with someone who can love you real and completely.
The situation and timing are the reasons why we feel fortunate to have extraordinary and complete relationships.
The moment is what makes you feel immense gratitude for meeting this person just when you did.