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“Every day I look in the mirror and wonder: if today was the last day of my life, would I like to do what I’m going to do today?If the answer is NO for several consecutive days, do I know that I have to change something ?.
Steve Jobs
Everyone, at some point, felt the immediate need to make a big change, whether professional, mental, spiritual, or personal; we all still have that “something” that we have to change.
What happens often is that we don’t know how to make this big change or that we don’t have the courage to do it. Many people wait for the moment when the “golden opportunity” comes, knocking on their door and giving them the change they need.
It’s like this
“An old dog spent many years locked in his house behind a fence, and for many years beat her to go out and be free. He was so tired of doing the same thing over and over again every day that he finally decided One day, a passing child was saddened with this dog and opened the fence, enough for the dog to push him, but the child’s surprise was great when he saw that the dog was standing in front of the fence and continued The opportunity to be free came into his life and he didn’t notice.
This happens many times in our lives, opportunities for change happen and we simply do not know how to identify or identify them and, for fear of the unknown, we let them go and always wait for this easy opportunity or this?Perfect time to make our big change.
This moment of our life will never be ideal to make a big change, there will always be risks and things that cost us to leave; If you are waiting for this ideal moment to act, you must know that this will never happen, what you must do is create the perfect moment, the perfect opportunity and the situation that you were waiting for.
When you’re encouraged to make a change in your life that can intimidate you at first or get you out of your comfort zone, you’ll discover some talents and skills you have that you didn’t know you had. having everything you wanted was a matter of decision, and that all your dreams can come true if you want them enough to pursue them. Don’t ask anyone to give you the chance you want, don’t ask life to make an extraordinary change. in your life, you’re amazing and you can attract big changes.
If you’re not what you want to be, if you don’t have what you’d like to have, if you’re not where you think you should be, it has nothing to do with bad luck or conspiracies, it has to do with the fact that you’re not doing anything different to change.
There are many people in the world who no longer want personal change; they are satisfied, they stop dreaming, they stop believing, they don’t want anything and they don’t go any further; people who are preparing to go to jobs they don’t like, people who get up early every day to follow a routine that makes them sick, people who continue to connect with people they don’t want, there are people who hate their jobs, but they keep waking up to do it.
When you do that, you literally erase the years of your life and throw them away.
Perhaps you have reached a point where no one else thinks that you will be different or correct your situation, and it is a feeling of loneliness that often occurs when we dedicate ourselves to many promises and do not keep them. You feel very lonely, especially when that feeling comes from family or friends.
Even sadder, most people take with them their greatness, ideas, dreams and goals to the cemetery, which becomes the richest place on the planet, in the cemetery we will find ideas that have never shown us, changes and visions that never came true. , aspirations and dreams that have never been pursued.
It’s very easy to fail in life, it doesn’t take effort to be a loser, you don’t need motivation or aspiration to stay at this low level, but it takes everything you have to cultivate your desire to say:?I’m going to change my life?
Some changes are just an honest decision, other times, a lot of little things are well done. Don’t run away from your situation, don’t put more into your life; cheer up and turn the moment into a perfect opportunity.
Waking up in the morning isn’t guaranteed for any of us, so today is the big day you’ve been waiting for, only if you can change you’ll know how far you can go. The question is, are you going to do your actions?
Photo courtesy of Jim Guy