When a person does not remember his childhood and how he wanted to be an adult, he inevitably forgot about his inner child and, as a result, his adult personality is somehow attenuated, he does not know how to love and has stopped finding grace in himself.
After trying so hard to be different, to adapt to what others expected of her, this girl was orphaned. This complicates his adult life; it’s a fake copy without really knowing who.
- Anxiety is the only thing that has crystallized in this struggle between its essence and the world.
- It could have been a great encounter.
- But in search of success he forgot that it only happens to those who are faithful to themselves.
- Either in a cabin.
- Or in a grand palace.
- Sadness has no limits.
- Transcends all matter even if you try to disguise it.
It’s time to stop and listen: your inner child screams to get their attention.
Eric Berne proposed in his theory of transactional analysis that people interact with each other through psychological transactions with their states of the self: father, adult and son.
The Father is accustomed to caring for the other, the Adult to show his individuality and the Child to receive care and affection. How can one person show his individuality and care for the other if he has already forgotten himself?
We believe that life defines us and that experiences change us, but it would really be legitimate to ask ourselves if each psychological test that each of us must face is living all the joys and sorrows, feeling that our inner child is looking at us and recognizing us.
However, most people think it is more interesting to disconnect from oneself and adapt to what is most useful and less painful to live on. We stopped being children to become copies.
“Original and dead copies were born. “
-Carl Gustave Jung-
In everything we have done as children is the seed of who we are now. There is no need for 50 sessions of Freudian Child Regression Therapy. Each of us remembers many things without being transported to that time.
Who were the people we love, the ones who surprised us with their humility, those who looked at us to reach out and smile, how were the places that excited us?
What we liked, what attitudes spontaneously distanced us, what music and what art impressed us. Our creativity and ability to detect authenticity was paramount.
So we grew up and started saying we were wrong: the most sensitive retreated, the brave became more cautious, the talented were shy and skeptical, and the genre feared everything they saw around them.
We assume that dreaming is wrong and that it is better to have your feet on earth, even if sometimes our only desire is to fly, first authority, then fear of social rejection, the hard struggle for the approval of others and finally the idea of power, money and stability.
They have transformed us in such a way that instead of living outside, we live inside, distrustful of our senses and enslaved by our minds.
It is very difficult to understand why our way of being current, let us think of looking for a starting point.
Many times the world promises to take away our enthusiasm and desire to live, it can hurt us and make us suffer, but the only way to face it is to show our true essence. Happiness cannot be an imposition, but peace and a healthy mind are good travel companions.
Of course, you can overcome all this; look at a picture of when you were a kid every day and see how proud he is of you. She’s the most important person in your life. Your inner child is screaming for your attention, don’t turn your back on him.