They often say that waiting is always worth it, that patience is necessary because things always come. Now we cannot fall to the extreme of leaving our existence in “stand by”, letting the present escape.
According to a study published in the Boston Globe, people, especially young people, always seek immediate gratification because they lack short-term patience; however, when it comes to protecting the future and achieving goals, the “need for immediacy” is not so intense. We can wait long periods until our time comes.
- Sometimes the anguish of waiting too long for something leads to the disappointment that this is not what we expected.
Your life will start to change as you stop waiting and adjust your expectations to reality. We must be active agents of our present, creators of new thoughts and emotions that encourage different actions.
There are those who make their own existence an eternal waiting room where everything is dreamed, but nothing ever happens, on the contrary, other people very negatively feed back these states of delay of reward or of this vital objective.
It is clear that not everyone faces these waiting situations in the same way: some despair and others feel comfortable. In this second case would be the concept that many generally define as “a modern evil”: dilation.
Things never come alone, fate may bring a little luck at some point, but it’s not very common, the future doesn’t solve things if we don’t give it movement, action and desire for change. your reality will be different.
You live better without expecting anything from anyone and expecting everything from yourself.
Although Leon Tolstoy said that everything is enough for those who know how to wait, to live?can cause the person to fall into a state of despair and helplessness.
Research published in the journal Psychological Science in 1997 warned that it is dangerous to postpone things and simply wait for the future itself to achieve our goals on its own.
We must be active agents of our reality, so we must consider these ideas:
Sometimes we spend time dreaming of a future that, when it happens, doesn’t bring us anything new, so we wait again, to design. Instead of being frustrated, should we be able to initiate a change, draw up a plan, get out of the comfort zone, touch the moon with our fingertips as much as possible?