Recently, for him? A thousand times I saw the movie “Seven Days with Marilyn. “I think the person who follows the blog has already realized how fascinating his story fascinates me. The more I read and study about it, the more I see how psychology and therapy could have helped her look at the world, and especially herself, in a different way.
After a childhood she went from house to house, after being abused, she created an image for the outside world, believing that it would save her from the ghosts in her, which is clearly evident in her lack of confidence in the talent he had. She needed to always have someone by her side to tell her how good she was, how beautiful she was, how talented and loved she was, like her assistant, doctors, partners and husbands.
- Their husbands married the star.
- Not Norma.
- The actress’s real name.
- And after realizing who Norma was.
- They didn’t have the breath to face her ghosts.
- Her pain.
- Her addictions.
- And her dire need for love.
- She saw herself as she always had: lonely and depressed.
And after all I’ve been through, every day I thank you on the Internet, for the friends I’ve made, for the opportunities I’ve had, and for having to work with all these ghosts. Myself from the image I have created, believing that this would hide me from the past, from trauma, from pain?
Everything was so ingrained that it took me a long time to realize (and I keep working on it) that love, recognition, talent, need to be recognized and work first on me and then share with others. And don’t try to get others to bring it to me, no one is able to do that.
If I don’t love myself, he doesn’t respect me, he doesn’t admire me, I don’t recognize my talents, no matter how many thousands of people around me tell me all this over and over again, I’ll never believe it. And that’s what Osho, yoga and therapy made me discover every day: the Universe is in me, love is in me, talent is in me and I’m the one who has to be convinced of that before anyone else.
I have to be good enough for myself, love my qualities and work on my flaws. To be the real Kossia, not the one you’d expect from me. Only then will I be loved, respected, recognized by the people I love and the people around me do not let your life pass without loving you. There is nothing more beautiful than self-love, self-know-how and inner peace, the rest is a consequence.
namaste