Have you stopped being yourself to please others?Weren’t you supposed to love yourself more?When you sacrifice your essence, your vulnerability increases, you get lost to the point of forgetting who you really are, you no longer know what he likes or what he wants, he handed over the key to his life to others.
When you sacrifice your essence and show yourself as others want, you pay a high price for approval and a false sense of appreciation, because it’s not really you who like it, but your appearance, the mirage you show.
- You are not aware that life is not about seeing who sacrifices the most for others to accept.
- But of discovering yourself and offering the best you have.
- Now.
- If you decide to be what others want.
- You will be vulnerable to your manipulations and the discomfort caused by being who you are not.
In any case, everyone may not like it. Believe me: don’t you need anyone’s approval to be happy?Walter Riso?
From the moment we sacrifice our essence, suffering becomes a constant in life, your gaze will be directed to the people who are part of your environment and anxiety will overwhelm you with guilt, you will be in a permanent state of alert, especially in the face of possible criticism and disapproval.
When we sacrifice our essence, we try to please and want to be accepted, at all costs, at all costs.
This situation, instead of making us happy, will lead us to whole nights to cry. The anxiety and stress that are permanently installed, “you must”, “you have to be” are everyday thoughts. We don’t know where this state of nervousness is and demand comes.
It’s as if our opinion doesn’t matter, it doesn’t even exist, just what others say is right. Besides, at no point do we question his way of acting, you give everything, but have you ever wondered why you’re not feeling well, why, despite everything you ask for and think it’s right, do you feel like you’re out of place?Site?
From an early age you learned to please others, lend one hand when the other needs it, provide support and humor, and understand their flaws.
You are very flexible with others and sometimes you forgive great mistakes, however, it seems that that same treatment is not the one you are given, whipped and demanded, and you believe that if you do things right you will not be accepted or loved.
Do you think if you say “no” you’ll be rejected and hated, and you’ll even stop being your friends?But what if someone you know behaved like that?Then why don’t you give yourself the right to be who you are, to say what you think and what you want, and to be honest once and for all?
Many times we have a fuzzy conception of what we have to be, and that’s why we leave it out, when in fact we are the only protagonists of our life, our attention is lost, it illuminates a bad place and we pay a high price.
Don’t we take care of ourselves, we care too much about others, we don’t make mistakes, we pretend to lie?All for a few smiles and compliments, what do we do?
When you sacrifice your essence to others, your self-esteem is more likely to collapse. You start relying on others to be happy, but you still can’t achieve happiness.
What would happen if that friend stopped talking to you? What if your partner left you? What if you got fired tomorrow? You will have to solve one of these situations yourself.
There are times in life when there is no choice but to collect the leftover coins because of the lack of attention received, it is the only way to boost self-esteem.
It is not selfish to take care of yourself, to help yourself in times of desolation and sadness. Wanting to be alone and not seeing anyone is perfectly normal. You need to pamper yourself, listen to you, be with yourself.
You’re afraid of what they’re going to tell you, but you’re not afraid to get lost or forget about being happy for yourself, though is this ultimately the most important thing?
The time you spend pleasing others is not fruitful, their vulnerability increases, and toxic people can use and manipulate it, forget about others, and dedicate themselves.
“Dare to set limits. Is it about having the courage to love yourself, even when you risk letting others down?Is Brown Brene?